Love - Osho

The human heart - a musical instrument, it contains great music. She sleeps, but she was here, waiting for the right moment to ignite, to be expressed, to be sung, to be stantsovannoy. And that moment arises through love. Without love, people will never know what kind of music he carried in his heart. Only through the love of the music becomes a living, awakened from a possible starting to become real.

You ask, "What is love?" This is a deep urge to be one with a deep urge to dissolve the I and YOU in union. Love is because we are separated from our own sources; this branch grows the desire to go back to the whole, to become one with him.



A man and a woman - the door to God. The desire to have a desire to love God. You can understand that, can not understand, but the desire to love, really proves the existence of God. There is no other evidence. Just because a person loves God is. It is because man can not live without love, there is God.

Man must move in love. This is the first step toward God, and it can not be avoided. Those who try to avoid the step of love will never reach God. This is absolutely necessary, because you realize its totality only when you provoke the presence of another, when your presence is enhanced by the presence of another, while another takes you out of your narcissistic, closed world under the open sky.

People think that they can fall in love, but when they find a decent man - nonsense! You will never find such a thing. People think that they will love only when they find the perfect man or woman. Nonsense! You'll never find them, because the perfect woman and a perfect man does not exist. And if they exist, they do not care about your love.

Do not demand perfection, otherwise you will not find no love flowing into you. On the contrary, you will become very unloving. People who demand perfection, it is not very loving people, neurotic people. Even if they can find a lover or loved one, they demand perfection, love is destroyed because of this requirement.



As soon as a man loved a woman, or a woman a man come immediately demands. The woman starts to demand that the man was the perfect simply because he loves her. As if he had committed a sin! Now he has to be perfect, and now he has to suddenly lose all the flaws - just because of this woman. Now he can not be a man. Or it should be a superman, or it must be a fake, a fraud. Naturally, it is very difficult to become a superman, so people are liars. They start to pretend and play games akterstvovat.

Remember, never demand perfection. You have no right to demand anything from anyone. If someone loves you, you are grateful, but do not demand anything - because he is not obliged to love you. If someone loves - it's a miracle, be timid before this miracle.

Love - feature natural as breathing. And when you love a person, do not start to demand; otherwise from the beginning you close the door. Do not wait. If something comes, gratitude. If nothing comes, then it is not necessary to come, there is no need to come to this. You can not expect this.

Before you think about how to get love, start giving. If you give, you receive; no other method. People are more interested in how to grab and gain. Anyone interested in obtaining and it seems no one is happy giving. People are very reluctant to give; if they produce, it is only in order to obtain, they are almost as the dealers. It is a deal. They always continue to strive to be like to get more of what they produce - is a good deal, a good business. But the other is also doing it.

To love means to share; be greedy then accumulate. Greed only wants and never gives, and love can only give and asks nothing in return; she shares without conditions.

Giving love - it is a real, beautiful experience, because then you - the emperor. Receive love - it is a very small experience because experience is poor.

Do not be poor. At least in regard to love, be emperor, because love - your inexhaustible quality, you can make as you like.

Love - it's not the quantity, it's quality, and as a special category, which is growing through out and die, if you hold it. If you skimp on love, she dies.

Love should give freedom; Love is freedom. Love will make the beloved more and more free, love will give him wings, love opens limitless skies.

Two mature persons in love help each other become more free. There is no involvement of the policy, there is no diplomacy, no effort to prevail. How can you dominate someone you love?

That is the basic requirement of love: "I accept the person as he is." And love never tries to change the other person, in accordance with its own idea. You will not try to cut a man here and there to fit the size of which is created anywhere in the world.