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What prevents us to meet the love
Yevgeny Belyakov therapist in their thinking very accurate eye for the special features of today's young and single people. We are in the Website believe that it is largely right.
It has long everything that needs to be long: feet, hair, nails. h3> It all round, which must be rounded (out of modesty will not list). She goes on dates with no underwear, so she had to face an enigmatic smile and sexy aura enveloped her from head to toe. She earns a decent and stylish looks. It emits only positive energy. We can say that it all beautiful: the face and mind, and the soul, and clothing. But she did not stop, she is incessantly improving! She already holds a "positive thinking", that is, cuts off any negative thoughts and feelings that her visit. And almost learned to love yourself.
Anything else and it does not remain. Because, in addition to himself, no one to love her. For all its merits, it did not manage to get married. She begins to suspect that these men are extinct. And it is ready to go to study in the "Bitch School».
This is a portrait of modern girls of marriageable age from 20 to 50 years. They are getting bigger, the same single "clever and beautiful," find their dream female happiness. And the first who responded to moan lonely hearts proved Market. About love and family were transmission and talk shows. Glamour Literature is replete with tips: where to find a husband, how to catch and under what sauce to prepare for marriage. But especially rampant psychological training.
«Dream Factory" stamped "puppet" one patterns. h3> I remember in junior high we were taken to the toy factory. There was a shop where they made plastic PUPS. They glued the two halves. To the left was a pile with the ass, right - with people. Factory worker looking away took a half left, half right, hop - and ready. Then exactly the same, eyeless, bezrotye doll crawling through the pipeline to the coloring. Perhaps psychological training guided by the same principle: whether the standard, and you will easily find your soul mate?
In recent years, all interested in how to achieve happiness in his personal life. Some complain about the fate of others - men, but absolutely all want simple recipes: a need to be in a relationship with a man - bold and active, or soft and waiting? What strategy to choose, so it does not slipped? As a "put the squeeze" a man before marriage? And the main question: what are "dolls" are currently the greatest demand?
According to the author's claims and ambitions of these issues is possible to predict their fate. No love they do not shine. Neither love nor happiness ... never. Because the most of today's young ladies of marriageable age and their potential suitors struck very dangerous disease. His name - infantilism , and it surely is sweeping the planet. From it is safe ..... no, no innocent maiden from him no medicine, but it cripples and destroys the life fate.
Infant - an adult person on the passport, but with children's values and attitudes. h3> A terrible infantilism that does not allow a person to grow to Person. View of the world, people living at the Infanta simplistically flattened.
The person living in the real world, Infante - in the illusory. Personality sees life complex and multidimensional. The person learns from his and others' mistakes. Infante, stepping on the same rake, each time surprised.
The person trying to understand the laws of life. Infant craves recipes, tips and patterns. The person wants to understand what exactly is happiness for her. Infant guided by the principle "so it is accepted». The identity over the years has become deeper, more interesting, more intelligent. Infante is not changed. The person creates his life. Infante can only imitate. Therefore, all of the Infanta to the eyeballs stuffed with cliches. On different occasions: from the simple - what to wear - to the serious - what to think, how to live.
From men Infanta want with him was easy, warm, fun and enjoyable. To provide, he cared for and protected. That he was smart, beautiful, emotionally delicate, generous, with sense of humor and, of course, a wealthy ... That is, vacuum cleaner, refrigerator and washing machine in one. Well to this miracle of technology also could sing a lullaby. And for that, she promises to devote his best years, to give affection, love and encourage an even greater achievements.
