5 ways to easily and naturally destroy their lives

you know - life is not a straight line. This is not a set of basic steps that everyone goes according to schedule. Not necessarily a certain age to graduate institute, start a family, make a career. You do not have to get married in 25 and became chief in 30.

You are allowed to withdraw. You have the right to know what inspires you. You have the right to take a timeout. We often forget about it. We ask ourselves the program from the school: go to the university, get a job. We go to work every morning, even if we do not really like it because we feel the need to implement the program. We make the next step, then another, thinking that just fill the "checklist" and one day wake up in a depression. We feel overwhelmed and do not know why. That's how we are destroying our lives
We are destroying life, choosing the wrong person. Why do we need to accelerate the relationship? Why do we want to be faster with someone, not someone else? Believe me: the love that is selected from the convenience that stems from the need to sleep next to someone who is determined by the need of our attention, but not the passion, never inspire you to get up at 6 in the morning and change the world. We must strive for a fundamental love - this type of relationship that makes us better every day.

"But I do not want to be alone" - we often say. Be alone. Eat alone, arrange visits to themselves, sleeping alone. So you will be able to learn more about yourself. You will grow, learn, what inspires you to think about their dreams and beliefs. And when you meet a person who will make every cell of your body to dance, you will be assured of it, because you will be confident. Wait. Please, I urge you to wait for love, fight for it, strive for it, because it's the most wonderful feeling, which is given to feel your heart.

We are destroying life, allowing the past to manage it. Some things inevitably happen to us. In life, everyone is grief, confusion, days when we feel useless and unnecessary. There are moments that will stay with us forever, words that hurt us. We can not allow them to determine their own destiny - it's just a moment, just a word. If you let every bad event in your life to change your view of yourself, your world will be negative.

You miss the opportunity, convincing themselves that are too stupid, because they do not receive an increase of five years ago. You miss the love, because the math, it was not good enough for her ex, and you can not believe what someone will say, as you really are beautiful. It is a cyclical process of self-destructive. If you do not allow yourself to get past events, words and feelings of the past, it will always look at the future through the prism of regret again and reliving and feeding them.

We are destroying life, when we compare ourselves with others
We are destroying life, not allowing yourself to feel. We are all afraid to say too much, feel too deeply, to show people what they mean to us. Demonstrating a person how important it is for you, you become vulnerable. Nevertheless, there is nothing to be ashamed of. There is something fascinating in those magical moments when you strip the soul and tell the truth. Tell me the girl that it inspires you. Tell the mother how much you love her, in front of her friends. Express your feelings. Open yourself, do not let your heart become stale. Be bold in love.

We are destroying life, when we choose tolerable conditions. Do you feel at the end of the day that they were happy to live? When we settle for less than the originally desired, we are destroying our own potential and deceive ourselves. Perhaps the next Michelangelo, is now sitting at a laptop and of invoices on paper clips, because it must somehow pay the rent, or because it is convenient, or because it is simply unacceptable. Do not let this happen to you. Do not destroy life in a way. Life and work, life and love are inextricably linked. We need to do an unusual job, we need to look for an unusual love. Only in this way we will be able to live an unusual life.









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