We all make mistakes, but perhaps at the moment we do not guess it was a mistake, and after 10 years we can greatly regret. Do not let words like "I'd like to ..." and "if only ..." to get into your vocabulary in the future. Take advantage of these vital tips to avoid regrets.
1. Wear a mask to make an impression on others. B>
If the person you're always showing the world - is a mask, the one below it will be nothing. Because whenever you are focused on how other people perceive you, or someone people want to see you, you forget who you really are. So do not be afraid that you will have to judge others, you know who you really are and what is good for you. You do not have to be perfect to surprise and inspire people. Let them be surprised and inspired by the way you traversal with its shortcomings.
2. Let someone for you to create your dreams. B>
The most difficult task in life - to understand who you really are, and the second - to be happy being who you are. An important part of it all - it is your decision to stay true to your goals and dreams. Next to you there are people who disagree with you? Good. This means that you have to defend your point of view and go their own way. Sometimes you do things that others seem crazy, but when doing it, you do not notice how time passes, it means that you are doing the right thing.
3. Hobnob with negative-minded people. B>
Do not let people with a negative attitude to convey it to you. Do not let them get to you. They do not click on the trigger if you do not give them a gun. If you will remember that to maintain a relationship with these people - it is a choice, not an obligation, you free yourself to other relationships, in which instead of irritation is empathy, generosity instead of greed and patience instead of fuss.
4. Be selfish. B>
The best monument - a life full of good deeds. The people with whom you have shared his inspiration and love will remember you and when you will no longer be in this world. Engrave your name in stone, but in hearts. What did you do for yourself, you will die, will the fact that you have done for others.
5. Avoid change and growth. B>
Want to know about your past - look at the conditions in which you live in the present. If you want to know the future, pay attention to the things that are committed in the present. You need to give up all the old, to let in a new life - the old is gone and will never return. If you realize it right now and take a step towards a new you configure success.
6. Stop, code difficulties begin. B>
There are no failures, there are only results. Even if things do not go the way you want, do not despair and do not give up. Drawing lessons and move on. Anyone who continues to make strides in the end will be the winner. Pledge of future victory in the actions committed long before the decisive battle. It is a long journey that begins with small steps, decisions, and actions that will ultimately lead to the triumph.
7. Trying to keep control of every detail. B>
It is necessary to touch the life is easy, but do not squeeze her throat. Sometimes you need to relax and just live without too much anxiety and excessive control. Learn to let go of how hard sozhmesh. Take a deep breath. When the fog clears in the forest, and you will again be able to see the trees, take the next step forward. You do not have to know in which direction you are going to succeed. Do you understand it now or not, but in life there is a strict order. Just need some time to connect all the dots.
8. Do not strive for what you really deserve. B>
Be strong enough to accept and let go, and wise enough to wait for what you really deserve. Sometimes you get down below his level, then to rise even higher. Sometimes it is necessary to allow the tears to make the look more clearly to see the opportunities. Do not rest on our laurels.
9. Infinitely wait for tomorrow. B>
The problem is that you always think you have a lot of time. But one day you wake up and find that you do not have it anymore and did not have time to do something that has always sought. And by the time you're either already achieved everything he wanted, or you have a list of excuses why you did not.
10. Being lazy and indecisive. B>
Peace to you do not have to, you have the world something. So stop head in the clouds and act. The responsibility for your life is yours - take it all under control. You are important and you are needed. Too late to sit and wait, that someone ever for you to do something. Someday - it is now the one who needs the world - it's you.
In general, you should concentrate on is to be yourself and do not let others control your life. And also to be a good man. It will bring you success.
Share these tips with your friends, do not let others regret.