27 important rules of modern etiquette

Selection of the actual date of rules that everyone should know and respecting other people

Etiquette - this is when you behave better than is absolutely necessary.

In today's world do not know the rules of etiquette - then spit into the wind, putting himself at the same time in an uncomfortable position. Unfortunately, many people perceive compliance with certain norms and rules of communication as something shameful considering it a sign of highbrow aesthetes who very far from real life. But these people forget that rude and tactless behavior can cause the same reaction in response.

In fact, the basics are quite simple etiquette. This culture of speech, common courtesy, neat appearance, and the ability to manage their emotions. Both concerns of both men and women.

Here is a compilation of the actual date of rules that everyone should know and respecting other people.

If you say the phrase: "I invite you" - which means you pay. Another formulation: "Let's go to a restaurant" - in this case, each person pays for himself and only if the man himself offers to pay for a woman, she may agree.
Never come to visit without a call. If you visited without warning, you can afford to be in a bathrobe and curlers. One British woman said that the appearance of the intruders she always wears shoes, a hat and take an umbrella. If a person is pleasant to her, she exclaims: "Oh, how well I just came!". If unpleasant, "Oh, what a pity, I have to go».
Do not place your smartphone on the table in public. By doing so, you show how important in your life plays a communication device and how much you uninteresting occurring near annoying chatter. At any moment you are ready to leave the useless talk and once again check the tape in the Instagram, to answer an important call, or ignore, to see what came out fifteen new levels to Angry Birds.
It is not necessary to invite the girl for a date and to communicate with her through text messages.
The man never wears handbags. And female coat it takes just to convey to the locker room.
If you go with someone else, and your companion pozdorovalsyas unfamiliar person you should say hello to you.
Many believe that the land can only eat with chopsticks. However, this is not entirely correct. Men, unlike women, can eat sushi and hands.
Shoes must always be clean.
Do not engage in idle chatter on the phone. If you are in need of spiritual conversation, it is better to meet a friend face to face.
If you're offended, do not meet the same rudeness, and even more so, to raise his voice to insult you man. Do not stoop to his level. Smile and politely move away from the ill-mannered companion.
On the street a man must go to the left of the ladies. On the right can only go soldiers to be ready to give honor.
Drivers should remember that cold blood spray passersby with mud - a blatant lack of culture.
A woman can not shoot indoors hat and gloves, but no hat and mittens.
Nine things should be kept secret: age, wealth gap in the home, prayer, the composition of the drug, a love affair, a gift, honor and dishonor.
Having come to the cinema, theater, concert to go to their seats should only face-to-sitting. The first is a man.
The man in the restaurant is always the first, the main reason - on the basis of the maitre d 'has the right to draw conclusions about who is the initiator of joining the institution, and who will pay. In the case of the arrival of a large company - pays part of the first and one from whom came the invitation to the restaurant. But if at the entrance visitors are greeted by the doorman, the man is obliged to miss the first woman. Then the gentleman finds free space.
Never touch a woman without her desire to take her by the hand, to touch her during a conversation, push it or take the hand above the elbow, unless you help her to enter the transport or out of it, as well as cross the street .
If you are rude to anyone calls out (for example, "Hey, you!"), It is not necessary to respond to this challenge. However, do not preach, educate others during the short meeting. It is better to teach a lesson of etiquette by example.
The golden rule when using perfume - moderation. If in the evening you could smell her perfume, you know that everyone else has suffocated.
Educated man never afford not to show proper respect to women.
The presence of a woman smoking a man with only her permission.
Whoever you are - the director, academician, an elderly woman or student - entering the room, greet the first.
Respect the privacy of correspondence. Parents do not have to read the letters intended for their children. Spouses should also act with respect to each other. Anyone who rummages through his pockets in search of similar notes or letters, enters an extremely ugly.
Do not strive to keep up with fashion. Better not look fashionable, but good than bad and fashionable.
If you are forgiven after an apology - no more time to return to the issue of insulting and ask for forgiveness again, just do not repeat such mistakes.
Too loud laugh loudly communicate closely examine people - insulting.
Do not forget to thank the loved ones, relatives and friends. Their good deeds and the willingness to offer help not the obligation, and the expression of feelings worthy of thanks.

And finally, let the words of the words of the legendary American actor Jack Nicholson:

I am very sensitive to the rules of etiquette. How to pass the plate. Do not shout from one room to another. Do not plow a closed door without knocking. Skip forward lady. The aim of all these countless simple rules - to make life better. We can not live in a chronic state of war with their parents - it's stupid. I carefully watch your manners. This is not some abstraction. This is all understandable language mutual respect.


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