Unwritten rules of modern etiquette, which only provincial simpletons do not know

There’s nothing wrong with a self-respecting woman. modern etiquette. It does not serve anyone else, but only itself. Because the rules of etiquette are not a set of ingenious laws for detached highbrow aesthetes. These are adequate and generally accepted norms, compliance with which makes life in society comfortable.

Of course, there are those who do not care about some rules and norms there, who do not care about the opinions of others. But it seems that these people spit against the wind, put themselves in a bad light and inconvenience others. So today's editorial office. "Site" It reminds you of a few simple rules of etiquette, the ignorance of which speaks bad about any young lady.



Good manners today are needed not only for representatives of the remaining monarchies, not only for young princesses and representative queens. These subtleties and ordinary girls will tell you how to act in difficult situations, so as not to make stupid mistakes.

  1. Personal purse.
    The rules of a real lady forbid a man to even touch her purse. And to give it to his companion, and there is no question, especially in people. The fact is that such a gesture openly speaks about the close relationship of the couple, and it is not accepted to shout about it in public.



  2. Posture at the table
    It is not necessary for a lady to recline on the back of a chair. First of all, it ruins posture. Secondly, the rules of etiquette advise that there is a little space between the back and back of the chair. In addition, the distance between the edge of the table and the body of the girl should approximately correspond to the length of her palm. Direct, but free posture of the girl at the table will attract to her admiring glances of others.
  3. Phone and desk
    Recently, we have already said that it is impossible to put your favorite smartphone on the table. And this rule is adhered not only to true ladies, but also just well-bred girls. It doesn’t matter if you’re in an expensive restaurant or in your own home. Moreover, incoming phone calls and messages are a part of personal life that should not be exposed.



  4. Hands at the waist
    Sometimes there is no place to put hands, so many decide to take a belligerent posture "hands to sides." But, despite its popularity, this posture does not go to a woman at all. She gives the young lady an assertive and sharp nature. Therefore, real ladies prefer, in extreme cases, to meekly fold their hands in front of them. Etiquette this position of the body only welcomes.



Can you make up in public? Moderate makeup
Etiquette rules prohibit making up in public places or applying cosmetics where the lady is not alone (in the office, minibus or even in the car). You can only fix the flowing mascara. You should not show the surrounding contents of your makeup. It is also worth mentioning the rule of makeup, when you can not combine red lipstick and dark shadows at the same time. A lady can only choose one thing. Too much makeup is terrible.

Correspondence rules
Modern etiquette rules even regulate electronic correspondence. It is understood that the girl should not respond to the message instantly, and this is done for two reasons. First, a person must understand that his interlocutor has personal affairs, which means that she cannot immediately quit everything to continue correspondence. Secondly, he must know that he must call for urgent dialogue. At the same time, the girl is advised to show respect and not to delay the answer for more than 20 minutes.





Words of thanks
A rule that applies to both correspondence and live speech. A well-bred lady must not only know the words of gratitude, but also use them correctly, in moderation. If they are thankful, they will not be able to be thankful. Address by name
A well-bred young lady will not turn not only on the whistle, but also on faceless calls like "Hey!" or "Girl!". After all, according to the rules of etiquette, a friend is obliged to address a girl by name. And if a stranger turns, then he should start the conversation with neutral words like “Sorry!” or “Sorry!”.





What rules of etiquette do you think you should remember? Don't forget to tell in the comments.

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