"VAMPIRES AND WE"

If someone when reading the title of this essay an association with
folkloric vampires or those mundane energy parasites on
which were written by the popular masses of literature, you should know that it will be a
entirely different. In life, everything is much more unpredictable. The more complex and
spiritual man, the more chances to cross his path with the ways
the real Dracula. To recognize their true nature, especially at first glance,
almost impossible, and it does not teach any one guide
"Struggle" with individuals, referred to as vampires. But I'll take
the courage to share my observations and some personal experiences.



Men and women vamp usually just cause attraction and admiration. They
they look great, they look after themselves, to increase the attractiveness. The mind and intellect of
people well above average; In addition, they are constantly evolving and have
refined culture. This is - the case where there is not only a beautiful shape, but
and in-depth content, the highlight. They have a particular perception of the universe and
innate mysticism. Being a psychologist by nature, vampires are sensitive
and attentive interlocutors, about which we can only dream. They are strong in body and
spirit, and from the very beginning of your acquaintance give the impression that "all
They know and can ". And it is - not bragging. They really know and see
More than you might think. Yes, a partner of this kind feel
safe and comfortable, and everything that happens between you - bright and unusual. And,
However, vampires almost never rotate in society, and if forced to
It finds that for them there closely. It's not their incommunicability, but
unwillingness to meet with ordinary people. In most cases, vampires create their
Some very close friends, or go in splendid isolation. True Count
Dracula - an outcast.


What, you ask, their danger? Rather, everything is perfect. You get
exciting communication, spiritual comfort and a feeling that they are in a fairy tale. Well, they are a little separated - so it gives them charm. Uh, no, my dear, you were not a fairy tale, but in real life in a heap!

The main problem in dealing with Dracula for all - its diversity. Not
hameleonstvo. Not acting. Namely - the ability to transform. Friendly
"Your guy", you just have entrusted your secrets, strict,
but the wise mentor, a talented professional, to which you
We asked for advice, dreamy and contemplative philosopher touches
the spectacle of the sky at sunset, in the blink of an eye turns into a cold and aggressive
despot is only the situation to spiral out of his control. In the course immediately starts
manipulation, the meaning of which is to give you a feel dependent
(From him) and not free in their choice. In other words, then, and it manifested
Vampires are the essence of the individual.

At the beginning of the manipulation is mild and unassuming. Expressions and hints
such as: "how do you so you can, because I tell you so many things ... not good!»,
usually it works flawlessly. Another would be, well, how to disagree without
feel full ungrateful jerk, do not lend your
best friend and the best lover a small amount, do not give him a favor,
not fulfill his request not to listen to his advice and convincing
etc. Thus, gradually, the vampire takes away from you all that before,
allegedly gave. Put simply, sits down. Becomes like his surreptitiously
bound and broken between you needed for a healthy relationship generally:
"You give me, I tell you." It is broken forever, but so far you do not
feel.

But the situation may be very different, or are on the rise. The more active the victim
including their brains, resists, defend their point of view, looking
compromise, or other solutions, the more hard and intolerant behavior whoever else
most recently he appeared relatives and friends. Vampires seek power. Over your
soul. So, over your thoughts and actions. The psychological blackmail,
servitude, certain masochism in the relationship - that's not the whole
a list of what you can cause this fatal man capable
destroy and create worlds. Elementary suggestion of pity and guilt,
to unquestioning obedience to his will. Vampires - bottomless barrel requirements.
Nothing to do with hysterical attacks banal parasites that feed on your
good mood, success and the ability to easily ruffle is not here.

However, the real vampires can not afford, and so on. Staying inside
quite calmly, apparently they feed on you - loudly justified,
evil. It's not rudeness. Not rude desire to humiliate you. It - calculating,
Energy revenge. Vampires vindictive as reject the concept
Good. If you look closely to their destinies, you can see that they
not all the glory to God. More precisely, by God there is no smell at all. For positive
He never comes to those who are alien to it. At the same time negative,
distributed a special, able to squeeze the last drop of all the positive, even from very bright person, inflict on him
misfortune lead to the destruction of his personality, and, worst of all - to
material ruin. Do not be the same after such an
Dracula.

The results of these relationships are the same: in the good part fails. And do not
Hope you understand! His sincere explanation you just tease
Dracula. Run, and do not turn around! Vampire suck out all their sacrifices,
It does not leave behind any positive emotions. Since the scandal, he goes
Loneliness and the victim have a long way to restore yourself and your
resources. Those victims who are not able to break away recklessly, even with
heavy losses, with his "master", or are too weak or themselves
a bottomless pit, but the opposite property - Donation.

Why do I have before it has been observed that by falling into the clutches of a vampire longer
predisposed complex and subtle spiritual beings? And because no
Dracula will not be another mutually interesting. The average man is not concerned
The search for truth, and all satisfied, simply complete vessel for
Dracula and will not submit to them an internal signal. Moreover, if you are - extraordinary, and
closely associated with the Vampire, and in your environment is "simple
death "that you trust, they will be surprised, sometimes sharply,
what you found in your partner, even directly express what he sniffy and
frankly they do not like. Be sure to listen to the opinions of your loved ones,
for they are certain - the ones whose company restricts Dracul! Going on about
Do not let her, but someone else's logic, you will avoid a great many troubles.

Consequently, any mystically gifted person with the gift of foresight,
the ability to attract, psychic abilities, intuition, developed
above average, a sharp mind and intellect certainly a vampire? No, no and again
no! A hierarchy exists in demonology and vedmovste as well as any
organizations, and entire books are devoted to this. All these spiritual entities difficult
to find common ground with the majority of the inhabitants, and they also are closed in their
circles, but there are major differences. Deal fairly simple. Bright
wizards will never put pressure on their partner. From them comes a powerful
Good energy, allows you to feel good and comfortable with any
the development of relations. On the other hand, strong dark specimen, unlike
Vampires have extrinsic last nobility. Genuine Darkness generous and
self-sufficient, always wants evil and always does good. It was her very essence
He pinpointed a mystic and a classic M. Bulgakov "The Master and Margarita»
in one sentence: "offer themselves and give themselves all." Great terms!
Emphasis on "Will give." Do not "take away". But Messer will only
Chosen ...