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About a lie
Signs that your partner is lying
As the hero of the popular series - "lying all" and in this he was absolutely right. Lie, bankers and beggars, parents and children, criminals and police, and most of all lie of course, officials - one can say it is an integral part of their work. Some people cheat skillfully, others only a clumsy attempt to hide the truth, but either way - all lie. In some cases, the truth is far more bizarre simple but false version of events, so before you bring the alleged liar to clean water, better make sure that it really leads you by the nose. Some characteristic features of the behavior of liars can be found in this collection.
Looking at the floor, or directly in the eye
If a person is lying, as a rule, he avoids eye contact, not to impersonate. However, some liars on the contrary, try as often as possible eye contact with the speaker. Direct view "eye to eye" always gives credence to the narrative than successfully used by many Sophisticated and experienced liars. If a conversation you can not even catch a glimpse of the interlocutor, and then he begins to steadily and persistently look into the eyes, do not believe the words of this hypocrite.
Extensive speech with long phrases
Liars tend to avoid direct short phrases - the longer monologues, the conversation goes leisurely lying about and have more time to think further sentence.
Quite typical of liars questions like "Where did you get this information?" Are also used to explain the source launched into giving liar opportunity to develop other actions to misinformation.
The poses and gestures
Body language is much more truthful speech - the one who is able to skillfully introduce companion astray, can not always control the smallest manifestation of his insecurity.
If a person says is very convincing, but it fidgets in his chair, facing away from the listener, constantly crosses his arms over his chest and touches his face, information received from the best to double-check.
Further details
Some cheaters in conversation like to mention various details - in their view, because many details are false stories more believable.
The two sides do not always believe the story of the complex plot and lots of "lyrical digressions" true, so that a similar technique is often only reduces the credibility of the narrator, but that does not stop liars.
"The best defense - attack»
If you talk to a liar dare you question his data, be prepared for a counterattack - likely hypocrite portray profound indignation of your distrust, the next few minutes, will assure that you are an honest man, he will not find in the whole world, and then try to turn the conversation on other topics.
As a rule, people who speak the truth, do not behave - they do not need to avoid "slippery" in the conversation, so that they are much less nervous and do not try to whitewash themselves in the eyes of the interlocutor, but quietly stand on his.
Inconsistencies in various versions
Liars often decorate their bikes a large number of picturesque details, but on the really important not to speak. To be sure that the interviewee does not hide anything important material, try to quietly write down his story on tape, and then return to it after a few days and discuss some of the details. If a kind of "confrontation" with himself confused the source of "testimony" and forget what he said earlier, most likely, your suspicions of "foul play" basis.
Eye movements
When talking with right-hander note how moving his eyes - if, after a given question the narrator looks up and to the left - this shows that he is trying to remember something, and moving to the right and look up usually occurs when a person "on the fly" invents comfortable the version for you. Exactly the same phenomenon, but in the mirror, observed in left-handers: memory access their eyes move to the right and upward, and when imagination is connected - up and to the left. If the hands overlap eye movement, is even more clearly speaks about possible fraud.
Also, while talking liars tend to blink more often and rub his eyes, so if you notice these behaviors interlocutor, but vision problems he does not, he is likely to lie.
The smell of sweat
Strictly speaking, if a person sweats, we can not say that he is a liar. Changes in the level of sweating - one of the main signs of fraud in the lie-detector test, but many people tend to sweat heavily in rough or stress, so that the smell of sweat can only serve as indirect evidence of the falsity, but if people do not just suddenly sweating and flushed and even I stammered something he is extremely anxious, or you hang noodles on the ears.
Fleeting grimaces
To convict a man in a lie, watch carefully for a change in his expression - in the beginning of the conversation liars often make mistakes, allowing true emotions affect their faces: it can be an easy half-smile, or almost imperceptible in contrast, emphasized a serious grimace. Typically, such "facial recognition" lasted only a few seconds, but it can say a lot about the intentions of the interlocutor.
Some people unconsciously notice when a liar for a moment "takes off his mask," but do not realize in this report and can not explain what caused the sudden surge of confidence. This ability is often considered a kind of irrational "flair", but nothing supernatural about it - practice on a liar, everyone can become a walking "lie detector».
Repetition - the mother of involuntary recognition
The interviewer told you more exciting story, but confidence in his words there? Have to tell it again and still ask about some details which he mentioned earlier. If the narrator suddenly begins to think and stammer, most likely neither the first nor the second version of his story not credible.
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As the hero of the popular series - "lying all" and in this he was absolutely right. Lie, bankers and beggars, parents and children, criminals and police, and most of all lie of course, officials - one can say it is an integral part of their work. Some people cheat skillfully, others only a clumsy attempt to hide the truth, but either way - all lie. In some cases, the truth is far more bizarre simple but false version of events, so before you bring the alleged liar to clean water, better make sure that it really leads you by the nose. Some characteristic features of the behavior of liars can be found in this collection.
Looking at the floor, or directly in the eye
If a person is lying, as a rule, he avoids eye contact, not to impersonate. However, some liars on the contrary, try as often as possible eye contact with the speaker. Direct view "eye to eye" always gives credence to the narrative than successfully used by many Sophisticated and experienced liars. If a conversation you can not even catch a glimpse of the interlocutor, and then he begins to steadily and persistently look into the eyes, do not believe the words of this hypocrite.
Extensive speech with long phrases
Liars tend to avoid direct short phrases - the longer monologues, the conversation goes leisurely lying about and have more time to think further sentence.
Quite typical of liars questions like "Where did you get this information?" Are also used to explain the source launched into giving liar opportunity to develop other actions to misinformation.
The poses and gestures
Body language is much more truthful speech - the one who is able to skillfully introduce companion astray, can not always control the smallest manifestation of his insecurity.
If a person says is very convincing, but it fidgets in his chair, facing away from the listener, constantly crosses his arms over his chest and touches his face, information received from the best to double-check.
Further details
Some cheaters in conversation like to mention various details - in their view, because many details are false stories more believable.
The two sides do not always believe the story of the complex plot and lots of "lyrical digressions" true, so that a similar technique is often only reduces the credibility of the narrator, but that does not stop liars.
"The best defense - attack»
If you talk to a liar dare you question his data, be prepared for a counterattack - likely hypocrite portray profound indignation of your distrust, the next few minutes, will assure that you are an honest man, he will not find in the whole world, and then try to turn the conversation on other topics.
As a rule, people who speak the truth, do not behave - they do not need to avoid "slippery" in the conversation, so that they are much less nervous and do not try to whitewash themselves in the eyes of the interlocutor, but quietly stand on his.
Inconsistencies in various versions
Liars often decorate their bikes a large number of picturesque details, but on the really important not to speak. To be sure that the interviewee does not hide anything important material, try to quietly write down his story on tape, and then return to it after a few days and discuss some of the details. If a kind of "confrontation" with himself confused the source of "testimony" and forget what he said earlier, most likely, your suspicions of "foul play" basis.
Eye movements
When talking with right-hander note how moving his eyes - if, after a given question the narrator looks up and to the left - this shows that he is trying to remember something, and moving to the right and look up usually occurs when a person "on the fly" invents comfortable the version for you. Exactly the same phenomenon, but in the mirror, observed in left-handers: memory access their eyes move to the right and upward, and when imagination is connected - up and to the left. If the hands overlap eye movement, is even more clearly speaks about possible fraud.
Also, while talking liars tend to blink more often and rub his eyes, so if you notice these behaviors interlocutor, but vision problems he does not, he is likely to lie.
The smell of sweat
Strictly speaking, if a person sweats, we can not say that he is a liar. Changes in the level of sweating - one of the main signs of fraud in the lie-detector test, but many people tend to sweat heavily in rough or stress, so that the smell of sweat can only serve as indirect evidence of the falsity, but if people do not just suddenly sweating and flushed and even I stammered something he is extremely anxious, or you hang noodles on the ears.
Fleeting grimaces
To convict a man in a lie, watch carefully for a change in his expression - in the beginning of the conversation liars often make mistakes, allowing true emotions affect their faces: it can be an easy half-smile, or almost imperceptible in contrast, emphasized a serious grimace. Typically, such "facial recognition" lasted only a few seconds, but it can say a lot about the intentions of the interlocutor.
Some people unconsciously notice when a liar for a moment "takes off his mask," but do not realize in this report and can not explain what caused the sudden surge of confidence. This ability is often considered a kind of irrational "flair", but nothing supernatural about it - practice on a liar, everyone can become a walking "lie detector».
Repetition - the mother of involuntary recognition
The interviewer told you more exciting story, but confidence in his words there? Have to tell it again and still ask about some details which he mentioned earlier. If the narrator suddenly begins to think and stammer, most likely neither the first nor the second version of his story not credible.
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