The first lesson of love is that we must not ask for love, but merely to give it. Become a giver. And people do just the opposite. Even when they share love, they always expect a reply no less love. It looks like a bargain. They do not give love, do not make it far. They love with the condition. Corner of my eye they observe non refundable if they so much as love. Very poor people ... they do not know the true nature of love. You just have to pour out of her, and she will return.
© Osho