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My daughter asked me to look after her grandson while she was in the hospital, but when I found out how everything worked in her family, I was shocked.
When my daughter was born, my best friend looked at the date and time of birth, and then stuck her tongue. As I remember now, she said: “A good girl will be, only with men she will have to suffer before finding her happiness.” I did not believe in the karmic relationship between a man and a woman, nor in astrology in general. But I accept my friend along with all her hobbies - she earns money with this, and a lot of money.
Years went by and I completely forgot about her prediction. My daughter was stable, she seemed to get married. And so, when the second granddaughter was coming, I witnessed their domestic order and... I couldn’t resist it. As a result, my daughter's marriage is on the verge of divorce, she cries and says I'm to blame. I don’t want to see my son-in-law a mile away. I remember the words of my friend...
Karmic relationship between a man and a woman I myself and my husband are very lucky. We worked together for a long time to start a tourist business. Now things are going hard, but in the best years we managed to save a decent amount of money and buy two pretty living spaces - one for myself, and the second for my daughter.
We bought the apartment for the child deliberately. We waited for her to graduate, find her first stable job, and as a symbolic gift handed her the keys.
The work then increased, and we were constantly traveling. Everything happened so quickly that I didn’t even have time to look at her constricted. He already proposed.
The daughter was in seventh heaven with happiness, and the young man looked decent, educated. Only his salary was average – he worked in a logistics firm for the construction business. I don’t know what he was doing there, but he looked solid, always in his shirt and pants.
The wedding, the first grandchild, and now the granddaughter is on the way. My husband and I, meanwhile, helped as much as we could, because my daughter was on maternity leave, and my son-in-law's salary was not enough for everything. So we often support the money, then the equipment that we can bring from abroad.
And now quite recently came the deadline - the daughter lies down for preservation and calls me. I asked for help and a week or two to sit with my grandson. Before I left, I came to tell her what and how they work, where everything lies, what to feed and what to do. Imagine my surprise when it turned out that I would have to sit no longer with my grandson, but with her husband! At least that was my impression.
Unsplash Family relations and order in the house At work, the son-in-law gathers at 8 am. By this time on the closet should already hang his ironed clean clothes - shirt and pants. On the table, too, everything should be ready: a dense breakfast, freshly brewed coffee and a packed lunch, which must be prepared in the evening. As far as eating is concerned, do not let God repeat it. The food should be varied, so yesterday's dishes are no longer suitable.
And this is not to mention cleaning, laundry and classes with his grandson - he is already given homework in kindergarten. Mostly simple, but also require time and patience. While my daughter explained to me what and how they arranged, my son-in-law came from work and, seeing me, muttered under his nose one and only “came”. No "hello" or "how you do."
Unsplash Daughter met her husband with freshly baked charlotte and tea. And as he came, so from the doorstep and fell on the couch - tired. I didn’t even look at my son, I’m not talking about playing with him or studying with him. It was difficult, but I stopped talking. I decided that I would help within reasonable limits and would not teach my daughter. Especially she's in a position, not the time now.
Karmic relationship between man and woman From the next day my shift began. I arrived early this morning, my son-in-law was still asleep. I brought some cakes from the house tonight. I decided that I would not dig in the closet with clothes - an adult man should know where he has what he has. Hear, he gets up. He came and looked at the cakes and asked me what it was. When I found out what I baked yesterday, he turns around and leaves. After that, after a while, the door slammed, and I did not see my son-in-law until the evening.
Unsplash I had something to do: cooked borscht, walked with my grandson, loaded up the laundry, washed the dishes. My son-in-law packed the cakes the next day. He came, started to twist his nose - he does not want to take yesterday's cakes. And why didn't I wash his shirt for tomorrow?
I didn't have enough patience, so I threatened him with a finger. Said my daughter spoiled him too much. And that in my apartment (and the apartment is decorated for me) I am not a maid. He pressed his lips, said nothing and went to his room. I went to work the next day and didn’t come in the evening. At night, my daughter calls me, cries into the phone and asks me what I have done. My son-in-law doesn't want to come back because I said this is my apartment.
I was accused of not feeding her husband and sending him hungry to work in dirty clothes. It also ruined her happy family life. I think it's better to be alone than with a dictator like that.
Unsplash Then I remembered the words of a friend, decided to share with her the situation. She shrugged her shoulders and said that this is a karmic relationship with a man. And my daughter must learn a lesson, no matter how hard it may be. My heart is bleeding, they will be granddaughtered, but with such a father they have no childhood. I'm thinking about taking a break from work and helping my daughter get back on her feet. Do you think I did the right thing?
Years went by and I completely forgot about her prediction. My daughter was stable, she seemed to get married. And so, when the second granddaughter was coming, I witnessed their domestic order and... I couldn’t resist it. As a result, my daughter's marriage is on the verge of divorce, she cries and says I'm to blame. I don’t want to see my son-in-law a mile away. I remember the words of my friend...
Karmic relationship between a man and a woman I myself and my husband are very lucky. We worked together for a long time to start a tourist business. Now things are going hard, but in the best years we managed to save a decent amount of money and buy two pretty living spaces - one for myself, and the second for my daughter.
We bought the apartment for the child deliberately. We waited for her to graduate, find her first stable job, and as a symbolic gift handed her the keys.
The work then increased, and we were constantly traveling. Everything happened so quickly that I didn’t even have time to look at her constricted. He already proposed.
The daughter was in seventh heaven with happiness, and the young man looked decent, educated. Only his salary was average – he worked in a logistics firm for the construction business. I don’t know what he was doing there, but he looked solid, always in his shirt and pants.
The wedding, the first grandchild, and now the granddaughter is on the way. My husband and I, meanwhile, helped as much as we could, because my daughter was on maternity leave, and my son-in-law's salary was not enough for everything. So we often support the money, then the equipment that we can bring from abroad.
And now quite recently came the deadline - the daughter lies down for preservation and calls me. I asked for help and a week or two to sit with my grandson. Before I left, I came to tell her what and how they work, where everything lies, what to feed and what to do. Imagine my surprise when it turned out that I would have to sit no longer with my grandson, but with her husband! At least that was my impression.
Unsplash Family relations and order in the house At work, the son-in-law gathers at 8 am. By this time on the closet should already hang his ironed clean clothes - shirt and pants. On the table, too, everything should be ready: a dense breakfast, freshly brewed coffee and a packed lunch, which must be prepared in the evening. As far as eating is concerned, do not let God repeat it. The food should be varied, so yesterday's dishes are no longer suitable.
And this is not to mention cleaning, laundry and classes with his grandson - he is already given homework in kindergarten. Mostly simple, but also require time and patience. While my daughter explained to me what and how they arranged, my son-in-law came from work and, seeing me, muttered under his nose one and only “came”. No "hello" or "how you do."
Unsplash Daughter met her husband with freshly baked charlotte and tea. And as he came, so from the doorstep and fell on the couch - tired. I didn’t even look at my son, I’m not talking about playing with him or studying with him. It was difficult, but I stopped talking. I decided that I would help within reasonable limits and would not teach my daughter. Especially she's in a position, not the time now.
Karmic relationship between man and woman From the next day my shift began. I arrived early this morning, my son-in-law was still asleep. I brought some cakes from the house tonight. I decided that I would not dig in the closet with clothes - an adult man should know where he has what he has. Hear, he gets up. He came and looked at the cakes and asked me what it was. When I found out what I baked yesterday, he turns around and leaves. After that, after a while, the door slammed, and I did not see my son-in-law until the evening.
Unsplash I had something to do: cooked borscht, walked with my grandson, loaded up the laundry, washed the dishes. My son-in-law packed the cakes the next day. He came, started to twist his nose - he does not want to take yesterday's cakes. And why didn't I wash his shirt for tomorrow?
I didn't have enough patience, so I threatened him with a finger. Said my daughter spoiled him too much. And that in my apartment (and the apartment is decorated for me) I am not a maid. He pressed his lips, said nothing and went to his room. I went to work the next day and didn’t come in the evening. At night, my daughter calls me, cries into the phone and asks me what I have done. My son-in-law doesn't want to come back because I said this is my apartment.
I was accused of not feeding her husband and sending him hungry to work in dirty clothes. It also ruined her happy family life. I think it's better to be alone than with a dictator like that.
Unsplash Then I remembered the words of a friend, decided to share with her the situation. She shrugged her shoulders and said that this is a karmic relationship with a man. And my daughter must learn a lesson, no matter how hard it may be. My heart is bleeding, they will be granddaughtered, but with such a father they have no childhood. I'm thinking about taking a break from work and helping my daughter get back on her feet. Do you think I did the right thing?
When the Christmas Fast begins and how it should be conducted by a pious Christian
My husband’s father built a large house with two entrances for his children, and recently my family and I moved there, but it turned out not to be so fabulous.