I found out that my 16-year-old son is already dating a girl, now I don't know what to do.

Few people are surprised these days. relationship at 16. I remember when my classmates started dating in 5th grade. 16 years old is a good time to start studying love. The only question is how prepared are teenagers for this?



With this article, we want to draw the attention of parents to important topics that are worth talking about with their children. Otherwise, you risk becoming a grandparent at some point. And as you know, it is better to do it planned.

My parents never talked to me about what love is and how people start dating. I have not received any education in this regard. But the goodness of his brain was enough not to bring home at the age of 18 pregnancy test with two stripes.

Meanwhile, I am 40 and have a son. He recently announced that he had a girlfriend. And then I got really scared. Is it too early to start a relationship at 16? I'm worried! I know my kid is smart, but I still think about how different teenagers are from our generation.



I told my son I wanted to meet his girlfriend for that matter. But Pasha is not ready to introduce us yet. It makes me even more unsettled. What if she's from a dysfunctional family? What do her parents do? How do they even know each other? Too many questions and too few answers. I hope my son doesn’t do anything stupid.

We have a bit of information from the hero's mother, however, it's enough to draw a few conclusions. First, the woman says that her parents did not conduct any educational conversations with her. It was as if she had gone down the same path without talking to her teenage son. What is the relationship between boys and girls?



Secondly, a woman definitely has a fear that the appearance in the life of a girl’s son can somehow alienate them from each other. She is afraid of losing contact with the child. Therefore, thoughts immediately creep into my head about the alleged dysfunction of the girl, with whom the woman has not even met.

Let’s imagine that she was not born into the most prosperous family. What does it matter when it comes to her feelings for Pasha and his feelings for her? The teen’s mother seems to have fallen victim to her stereotypical thinking.



What does she do now? It is best not to put pressure on your son and not to force his desire to meet his girlfriend. Another important point. baby-talk. It should be gently reported that a relationship at 16 is a responsibility.



If they get intimacy (and this is likely to happen), they should worry about the means of protection. It will not be superfluous to give your son a few packs of contraceptives. In the future, you can ask about the affairs of your son and his girlfriend and unobtrusively show your interest. At some point, he will definitely want to introduce his parents to his beloved. What do you say?

Begin to know yourself and other people in the love plan at the age of 16 is quite normal. In this matter, a lot depends on the upbringing of the child, his environment. In other words, what a background he has. Parents should talk about all sensitive topics as early as possible, not hoping that they will do it in school. There, unfortunately, everything is very deplorable.



All unwanted pregnancies at an early age occur because parents and teachers ignore the moment of enlightenment in this field of knowledge. No wonder I use exactly that wording. Because first, teenagers must familiarize themselves with the theory, and then proceed to practice, knowing themselves.

I wonder what you think about that? Boldly share your thoughts in the comments!