The former emerged as a devil from a snuffbox, asking for sympathy and help

“My husband left me with his son before he was 5 years old. And now the former makes claims and wants to live in my house! – complains our reader Olga. Having experienced many difficulties, she managed to put her child on his feet. And her husband remembered her when serious problems began in his life. As a woman will do, read further in the article.



When I found out I was pregnant, my husband was not happy. He wasn't ready for the baby. But I didn’t insist on terminating my pregnancy. And I would never do that. It was hard because I didn’t feel much support from my husband. There was no talk of any partner birth, although I, to be honest, dreamed about it.

At first, the husband was afraid to approach the child. He was not involved in our son’s life. And it made me even more sick. But then Tolia slowly began to melt. We started talking more about our future. And he seemed to see that the role of the father suited him. However, for any mistake of our little son, the husband scolded him very much. I had to protect the child from her husband’s attacks by reminding him that our baby was still quite young.



However, very soon Tolya realized that such a life is not for him. He's gone. And it wasn't treason. My husband said that he did not want to live with me and my son, he wants to become a bachelor again and forget it all like a terrible dream. Imagine how shocked I was at that moment. Our little Sasha was not even 5 years old. But he understood.

"Dad is leaving forever?" he asked as I tried to explain to the child that his dad and I were splitting up and wouldn't live together. I tried my best not to cry, but I couldn't. I haven't seen Tolya since.

Years passed, my son grew up and became a real support for me. He promised me that he would grow up and buy me a big house so I could live in it and not deny myself anything. Surprisingly, that's what happened. My son started programming at the age of 15. He was actively engaged in self-education, graduated from university and began to work in a very prestigious company.



Sasha is 26 years old and has already achieved a lot. The son kept his word. I live out of town in my little house. We sold our apartment, I gave the money to my son, although he did not want to take it. He promised to invest everything so I could always rely on him.

My husband and I never spoke again. My son knows Tolya left us. And he almost hates him. I am saddened by this, but I understand that this is my son’s position. It's his right. When my husband and I got divorced, I wasn’t looking for a new relationship. There were fleeting affairs. But I'm still single.



And everything in my life was going well, until one day Tol was on the doorstep. The ex is making claims. He found out our son bought me a house and now he wants to live here. He has the right because he is his father. It makes me laugh at such statements.

It turned out that Toli is in trouble now car and a small trolley. Through friends he found out where I live. He came with the hope that I would accept him. He says, let me live in the garage. But is that normal? I have nothing to do with my ex. I hate being with him for more than 5 minutes. And he wants me to take him in!



On the other hand, I feel sorry for him humanly. I'm afraid to tell my son about my father's visit. I don't know what he'll do to him. Tolya calls every day, asks what I have decided. For some reason, I can't say no to him. What do we do?

Life Wisdom and Editorial Advice Do not get involved in the history of your past again, Olga! A person who betrayed once can easily do it again. Of course, Anatoly needs the help of his ex-wife and he hopes that she will not refuse him. After all, it seems that the woman is very kind and responsive. But the man definitely wants to take advantage of it.



One way or another, the return of the father should be told to the son Sasha. I am sure that he will be able to reason with his mother and prevent her possible stupid act. Agreed?