Japanese mother gives advice to son who just got married, it is impossible to read without tears

I recently came across a very nice one. Congratulation to an adult son from his mother. A Japanese woman congratulated her 20-year-old son on his anniversary. Of course, it may not be a Japanese mom, but just some fictional story. But the words I read touched me a lot. I wanted to share it with you!



Greetings to my adult son from my mother I love you as no one will ever love you. I will always be there for you even when I am gone.

You don't have to love me. You don't have to care. You don't owe your mother anything. Children's duty was invented by those who fear loneliness. But if you call me once a week, and sometimes you drop by with a fresh cake in a box, you'll never find a happier mom in the world!

The main woman in your life is your wife. I'm sure I won't like her, and you won't get your mother's approval. Don't let that stop you. You should be happy. And I know you'll make the right choice.



Never tell your family that your mother cooks better than your wife. Praise your wife for all her cooking. Over the years, your wisdom will return to you a hundredfold, when your wife will learn to cook flawlessly, and most importantly - with love.

God forbid you to forget your wedding day and the birthdays of your wife and children! Flowers, beautiful lace linen and sweets always work faultlessly. And if you want to surprise your beloved every year, remember the day you met.



Sometimes you won't know how to handle your wife's requests. I would recommend applying the rule three times. The first time a request made by a woman out loud is rather caused by a sudden rush of emotion. Impressed by advertising, for example. The second time, the wife thinks out loud, wondering if she really needs it.

Act when your wife asks you for a third time. So she really thought and decided. After three times, you enter a dangerous conflict zone, “I asked you a hundred times!” Why would you want to fight the main woman in your life?

Be patient if I ask for help with my smartphone. What seems elementary to you is science to me. Remind me who taught you how to pot?

I love you, my big little son.

It does not matter who wrote these lines: Japanese, German or Ukrainian. More important is what the meaning is in them. The power of motherly love is unlimited. If there is a real bond between mother and child, it will only grow stronger over the years.

I wondered what advice my would-be mother-in-law would give her son if she wrote him a similar greeting. The most interesting and funny ones I wrote down to share with you. That's what she said.



“Don’t be angry, son, if I often worry about you and give you advice. This is how I try to express my love for you. And if I ask you something, remember that it's not empty words. Try to fulfill my request as soon as possible.

Love your woman as if you could lose her forever tomorrow. Listen to her inner voice. Never complain to me about her, no matter what she did. Your fights are your business. And don't tell her about my differences with my father. This rule works exactly the same way.

Never compare your loved one to me. She'll never be like me. And I'll never be. We are different, but we love you equally. Be supportive and supportive for us!



An unusual request touched the mother of my young man. At the end, she said she had a favorite poem about her son. It was written by Russian poet Valentina Belyaeva.

I'll tie you up.
From fluffy mohair threads.
I'll tie you up,
I won't lie a single loop.

I'll tie you up,
Patterned in the field of prayer
Wishing happiness
In true love.



I'll tie you up.
Fun melange yarn.
I'll tie you up.
And then I'll give it to you.

Where do I get the strings?
I'll never tell anyone.
To tie your life,
I'm secretly dissolving mine.

What advice do you give your son?