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That's why I don't make my daughter work around the house! Born to please...
Many mothers daughterly They say, “Well, I’ll finally get help!” And from an early age, they impose on the girl the opinion that all domestic work should certainly fall on her fragile shoulders: cleaning the house, washing dishes, washing and ironing clothes, caring for small brothers / sisters, and this is not the whole list.
How to Raise a Girl
But is this behavior right? And who said that such a model of education would be useful for a girl? After all, she will be tuned since childhood, but the fact that all household chores bring only suffering. Who in childhood wants to deal with the domestic problems of adults? That's right, nobody!
People say, “She will grow up and not even make soup for her husband.” The answer to this argument is quite simple: if he wants to, he will certainly learn. And for this, you do not need to peel potatoes from a young age every day. Everything the girl needs will fall on her head. That's it!
But not all parents understand that their orders like “wash”, “clean”, “cook”, “do” they bring up two types of personality. The first type will try to escape from all the loads: “I’m tired of these duties, you need, here you go and do it!” This phrase is often heard from boys.
And the second type: "As long as you can wash these terrible dishes, no one needs it." The second phrase is often heard from a girl who doesn’t believe that homework can be fun. And all the fault of the wrong model of education.
After all, most parents now raise their daughters on the principle: there is no word “don’t want”, there is the word “should”. But who wants it? A little girl at an unconscious age? Hardly...
That is why many young ladies turn away from washing dishes, cleaning and cooking. And the young husband eventually begins to irritate so dissatisfied with everyone and the whole girl.
Parents of girls should not dip them headlong into home life. Everything that is useful to a girl in life will come to her. You know how? When daughterShe feels like she was born for joy!
Since childhood, she looks at what her mother does and just copies. This is probably the easiest way to educate. To set a good example, you do not need to strain all the time, doing homework through force. You should simply take care of your family, feeling the joy of daily stay with relatives.
541997
Only then will the little girl perceive household duties not as a routine, but as a joyful way of caring for her loved ones!
What do you think of this model of education? Be sure to share your opinion in the comments!
How to Raise a Girl
But is this behavior right? And who said that such a model of education would be useful for a girl? After all, she will be tuned since childhood, but the fact that all household chores bring only suffering. Who in childhood wants to deal with the domestic problems of adults? That's right, nobody!
People say, “She will grow up and not even make soup for her husband.” The answer to this argument is quite simple: if he wants to, he will certainly learn. And for this, you do not need to peel potatoes from a young age every day. Everything the girl needs will fall on her head. That's it!
But not all parents understand that their orders like “wash”, “clean”, “cook”, “do” they bring up two types of personality. The first type will try to escape from all the loads: “I’m tired of these duties, you need, here you go and do it!” This phrase is often heard from boys.
And the second type: "As long as you can wash these terrible dishes, no one needs it." The second phrase is often heard from a girl who doesn’t believe that homework can be fun. And all the fault of the wrong model of education.
After all, most parents now raise their daughters on the principle: there is no word “don’t want”, there is the word “should”. But who wants it? A little girl at an unconscious age? Hardly...
That is why many young ladies turn away from washing dishes, cleaning and cooking. And the young husband eventually begins to irritate so dissatisfied with everyone and the whole girl.
Parents of girls should not dip them headlong into home life. Everything that is useful to a girl in life will come to her. You know how? When daughterShe feels like she was born for joy!
Since childhood, she looks at what her mother does and just copies. This is probably the easiest way to educate. To set a good example, you do not need to strain all the time, doing homework through force. You should simply take care of your family, feeling the joy of daily stay with relatives.
541997
Only then will the little girl perceive household duties not as a routine, but as a joyful way of caring for her loved ones!
What do you think of this model of education? Be sure to share your opinion in the comments!
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