After a 12-hour night shift, I go home, pack my kids for school, and go to bed, but my husband doesn't like it.

I remember a time when my boyfriend I came home after a night shift in the morning.. Of course, the first thing he did was go to bed to get a good rest. I was doing my own thing at the time and didn’t bother him. I recently heard the opposite story. A woman works in it at night. And her man is always unhappy that his wife lies in bed all day long. How this is possible and whether the spouses will be able to establish a relationship, read further in the article.



After the night shift, my husband and I are going through difficult times. I've been looking for a job for a long time. As a result, I agreed to the first more or less acceptable option. Now I am a night manager in an online store. The work is not dusty, but takes a lot of energy. I work 12 hours every night 5 days a week.



Of course, after the night shift, my only dream is to sleep. But I have to get my daughter to school in the morning. And then I can lie down. While Aniutka is studying, I sleep and my husband is awake. Except he doesn't like me having a rest and not spending time together.

I sleep for 5 hours. Then the daughter returns from school, she needs to be fed, do homework and some small household chores. And then back to work... I'm used to this rhythm of life. But it is stressful that my husband does not understand that I need this rest.



The funny thing is, while I'm awake, we're always together. And he constantly reproaches me with the fact that I try to avoid communication with him with my daytime sleep. I’ve told him many times that I don’t have enough sleep for a normal life. I literally live through the evening and then go back to work.



At this time, he sleeps quietly, and also works at home. Of course, he is bored to spend half a day alone. But what can I do? I'm not going to be a night manager all my life. It’s just a time now and you have to live through it. I can barely cope, and my husband’s constant reproaches to me only aggravate the situation.



My friends say it's an unhealthy relationship and you need to talk to your husband seriously. My mother calls her son-in-law an egotist. I don’t want everyone to think I have a bad husband. But every day I have less strength and patience. How do I explain to a loved one that I am not a robot and have the right to rest?

It makes me crazy that stories like this happen in real life. But I readily believe that such men exist. However, I can simulate the same situation by imagining how my husband works at night and his wife sips during the day.



Unfortunately, this story is a vivid example of how a self-loving man destroys a woman who loves him. If talking is not helpful, it may be worth resorting to more decisive action. It is unlikely that the heroine of the story is ready to live with such a man all her life. After all, if you think about it, the situation can only get worse in the future.

I wonder what you would do in the place of the main character of the story? Would you tolerate such an attitude towards yourself? Boldly share your opinion in the comments!