Shukshin advised women to smile, even when sick Bashny.Net

Men and women talk about different things differently. Accordingly, their priorities are different. A man without a couple feels easy and confident, he throws all his strength at work or hobbies, disposes of free time, as you like. A woman feels uncomfortable without a partner. She wants someone to give flowers and compliments. Loneliness for women is more noticeable emotionally.



A woman who is loved, glows with happiness, she has the strength for everything. And he'll have time to do it around the house. And she will go to work, and she will take time for herself, so that she does not stop being admired. She always wants to feel the warmth of her loved one, share her emotions with him, give a thousand times more love to her companion.



Without a man, a woman fades like a cut bud. And stereotypes that a woman should get married by the age of 30 only fuel self-hatred and awaken terrible complexes. And here she is, alone, comes from work quickly, not hiding fatigue on her face. On the way, she has to run to the store to buy groceries. With heavy packages, she walks like a driven horse. A lonely woman cannot be confused with anyone, without love she becomes stale like forgotten bread on the table. And the paradox is that no man is attracted to sad, tired women. If someone sees a beautiful but very tired lady in a cafe at a table, he will think: “It’s a pity that she is not in the mood today, I wanted to meet you so much.” Maybe another time.”



Vasily Shukshin’s advice “And you beat yourself.” You feel sick and you smile. That's when you'll be an interesting woman. Walk like you, no dog has bitten like you: head up, chest up. And smile. But not laughing loudly is stupid. And when you go all unhappy, you feel sorry for yourself, that's all. There is no hunting to approach you, is a quote from the Soviet film Vasily Shukshin called “Lives such a guy”, which is based on several stories of the writer.



V. Shukshin is partly right. He, like all men, sees no point in getting acquainted with a gray mouse, which will not say a good word, nor squeeze out a smile. Men believe that women should inspire and delight, otherwise why associate life with a lover of brainwash? If she's so dull before she meets you, what happens after the wedding?



No, it is not necessary to take the quote of the writer literally. After all, a man falls in love with a passionate woman, interesting. He falls in love with the cozy feeling of being around such a woman. He wants to reach heights for her and with her. This means that instead of unsuccessfully searching for a couple on dating sites, it will be much more useful to go to yoga, go swimming or dance. Go to the gym, read books, make cakes, embroidery with a cross. Any activity that brings pleasure will benefit both the body and the soul.



When a person is focused on the knowledge of the world and self-development, he attracts like-minded people. And now you're dancing tango with an attractive instructor. And for the figure is useful, and the mood is good. Think about what you enjoy doing, what you want to do at the moment.



If you learn to enjoy simple things, you will become relaxed and independent. And in case they ask you out. It will happen when you are ready for it, when you see other aspects of your life as clearly as the desire to be the keeper of the hearth.



They say that not to give out your feelings is to show resilience, which is not given to everyone. This is a sign of a “breed”, you must at all costs smile and endure. You really don't have to. When you want to be loved, you must first learn to love yourself. If there is no one to speak or cry, go to a psychologist. No one likes to be burdened with other people’s problems. But when you meet your man, you will feel it, you will be able to share your unspent tenderness and get even more warmth in return. What do you think about V. Shukshin’s statement about women?