Why you should avoid disputes Bashny.Net

Since all humans are rational beings and everyone has their own opinions on a particular issue, we simply cannot do without disputes. Every person on a subconscious level feels like a leader and the main figure of this world as a whole, so it is so important for us to listen to our opinion and confirm our rightness.

Not everyone, despite this, from birth is given the ability to find a common language with anyone and effectively conduct any dialogue. But, as you know, everything can be learned if you really want to.





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Have you often been defeated in an important dispute due to the fact that you did not have enough weighty arguments and could not successfully counter the statement of the interlocutor? If you gave an affirmative answer to this question, then you should definitely read the book The Perfect Argument.





The authors of the book – psychologist Vadim Petrovsky and journalist Alexei Khodorych offer “1500 ways to win an argument” with the help of ambiguous phrases encodes that make it possible to establish communication with anyone and whoever they are. cause.

Encode is a phrase that encodes multiple meanings. “The encode phenomenon is directly related to psycholinguistics – the science of the laws of generation and perception of speech statements,” the authors say.

They are often used in a humorous context to defuse the situation and show the absurdity of the meaninglessness of the conflict.





It is a psychological game where there are no losers. Both sides often enjoy such a verbal fight. Encode gives the opponent the opportunity to complete the given hint to the finished image. Finishing and speculative, the opponent shows himself, as required.





These phrases help the interlocutor to open up and make the atmosphere much friendlier. This style of communication is typical in general for any environment, but it is especially useful to master it for business negotiations, where the interlocutor may be a complete stranger who must be immediately tuned to a positive outcome of joint work.

In addition to creating a comic effect and a disposing atmosphere, they are also used to block and intercept the initiative in communication. It is no coincidence that encodes are used in their practice by business coaches, experts in working with a complex audience, speeches and presentations.





26 phrase encodes for all occasions

1. “It’s hard not to understand the language you’re thinking in, right?”
2. “Reform the question, it’s important to me!”
3. “Sometimes the hunter and the victim change places. You know what I mean?
   
   
   
   
4. “Sorry for the question, is Russian your native?” ?
5. I will not stop you from making your mistakes.
6. "Don't be flattered - it doesn't suit you."
7. “Don’t put your head in the sand in the rows of discussion.”
8. It is important not to pay attention, it is important how much the gift costs.
9. "We all know who I am."
   
   
   
   
10. “I’ll do it when the time comes.”
11. “You’re not in shape right now to make the right decision, you’ve been hit.”
12. “Do you look forward to good news? ?
13. “People like us can’t get away with it, right?”
    
    
    
    
14. "Cooked turnips are wiser."
15. The future father should not have such thoughts.
16. “People, like bread, only grow stale with time.”
17. “I wanted to make sure you really didn’t care.”
    
    
    
    
18. “If stupidity doesn’t fit in your head, it will break out.”
19. “You look at a man and you think Vatican City, and you look closely, he’s Las Vegas!”
20. “Everything goes quickly, it just drags on sometimes.”
21. "And this idea is insisted on Viagra!"
22. “Didn't your mother tell you that? ?
23. "Now it's your turn to think."
    
    
    
    
24. “You ask a simple question and they look like you’ve carved out a whole village.”
25. Confucius foresaw everything, but not that.
26. “Lies are dreams caught at the scene of a crime.”

Agree, having a few such discouraging phrases in stock, you can easily answer uncomfortable questions and communicate with unpleasant people.

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