Why should a man tolerate a woman who has crossed the 40-year mark?

Judging by observations, most marriages break up either in the first 3-5 years, or when the marriage lasted twenty years. And if in the first case it is possible to understand why this happened, then why marriages, cemented by time, fall apart, we will try to understand. Man walks away from woman. It doesn't just happen anyway.



It's hard to get inside everyone. Nevertheless, the editorial board "Site" He will try to figure out why this is happening. You can’t just turn around and leave. So there's a reason. No, not everyone behaves this way, but there are such cases. Let's see what happens. But don’t think it will be a nice text.

Usually, an uncle can go out somewhere after forty. Life is basically arranged, children have grown up and live their lives. social He is supposedly exhausted, left to live a little for pleasure. And it is not that his own woman did not have a hand in this. Why is this happening?



It may be worth considering. trendThey allow women to be what they are comfortable with. This emphasis on natural appearance, and offers to accept yourself as you are, and endless “psychological” trainings on how to love yourself, become successful and so on.

According to the observations of some experts, most of these meetings boil down to how to properly exploit a man and why you should treat him primarily consumer and only then bestow your feelings. You can imagine a woman who forty Suddenly she decided to free herself from “male oppression” and show that she was not worthy of it.



There must be something about it. grainAfter all, the man, most likely, has long lost interest in his half. What is love, and especially chemistry? Rather, a partnership where everyone just performs their usual duties. Often, “partners” simply tolerate each other, not wanting to create unnecessary problems for themselves. It is easier to accept and not to raise this bottom silt.

A man leaves a woman. What about a man? You need to take a few steps back and remember the not so distant past. Then there was no body positivity and strict naturalness. But glossy With stunning beauties. And women 20-30 years ago lived in strict accordance with those canons.



Remember what fashionista you were? In a miniskirt, in pink leggings, on heels and with a high lacquered bangs. It's expensive to watch! Your man ate you with his eyes and his female-beauty It was during that period. You may be aware that male brains don’t accept new things well: we tend to stay in visual illusions for a long time.

Unfortunately, many women after forty do not look like before. But that's not even the point. In the home atmosphere should be love and respectThey are primarily created by a woman. And if earlier you were “sharpened” on your man and was the guardian of the family hearth, then after consumer training, where “no one owes anything to anyone”, everything changed.



Requirements, rules, new boundaries. It can be difficult for men to adapt. Trust me, a lot of people are trying. playThey want you to feel good. But now they see that they are just being tolerated. You don’t want to waste your energy to get a place in your own home. Easy to leave. That's what a man does. There is simply no way to meet the demands. And this is at a time when you gave up on yourself and do not change in a hurry.

It is clear from the editorial board that a woman is not a screen or a screen. house-pieceShe has her own interest and her own life. But it would be so great if your man saw before him a loving and well-groomed woman, albeit by modern standards, a woman who creates comfort, not problems. We’re not talking about everyone, but some men deserve it.

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Women can now write, why should we do all this and think about making a man comfortable? But what about us, why should we sacrifice? We shouldn't. If you have a clear abuse, leave. But if there's a normal man around, why do you think he made you ski?

Man walks away from woman for several reasons: appearance, relationships, feelings. He probably knows he's no longer a hero to you. Read our article on why men don’t leave bad wives because they’re afraid they’ll find it worse. Thank you for staying with us!

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