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Why Japanese mothers are obsessed with educating their children
We often wonder why the Japanese are so bad. In the sense of endless labor and patriarchal values against the background of defiant anime and absolutely crazy unbridledness. It's all my fault. Japanese educationBut it is not available to everyone. If you want to know, there is a Kyōiku Mama in Japan. We'll tell you what that means.
GettyImages Not so long ago editorial "Site" I already mentioned Japanese fads in terms of family. We talked about the fact that marriage is almost the only legal way to have a child. Despite the fact that ordinary Japanese people often bypass these rules, people with status simply cannot afford something like this. "The face of morality," so to speak.
This education is available to a limited number of people. Just fine. wealthy families They can afford it. Sometimes it seems absurd, because children begin to prepare for career growth almost from birth. And without “Keiko mom” here can not do. Their attention to children can be called a real obsession.
Despite the fact that in Japan all children are considered smart and gifted, wealthy people in most cases try to identify their child in the most prestigious institutions. Be it. kindergarten, school or university. There are cases when the heads of schools or gardens parents offered fabulous bribes, as long as their child was enrolled. That's the bigotry.
Against the background of the fact that the head of the family is constantly working and engaged in a career, all these issues are dealt with by the mother. And she has no equal in that regard. Japanese “keiko moms” act like a battering ram, completely without seeing the shores. The child falls under the pressure of learning from a very young age, he has almost no free time. And my mom keeps an eye on everything.
GettyImages "Keiko Mama" "Keiko Mama" is often called completely unscrupulous and immoral women. They can also be accused of having no love for their children. In fact, they are interested only in how the child comprehends science and whether he managed to perform it. homework. It doesn’t matter how he feels. The main thing is to do well in school.
Despite draconian parenting techniques and judgment, other Kyōiku mothers are envious. Not so much for them as for the success of their children. However, girls have a small chance to learn childhood, since mothers usually rely on their sons. That's why girls can decide on your own. As for boys, they have no choice at all.
It should be noted the absolute sacrifice of Kyōiku mother. Just as her child has no free time, so does she. These are usually short intervals for “eating” and “taking a nap.” As a joke, they can be called Madzillas (Mother plus Godzilla). This is confirmed by the experience of one such mother, who, after raising four, wrote a book about it.
She directly writes that she achieved success and all her children eventually made a serious career in medicine. This was preceded by a completely ascetic life. discipline And the best university in Japan. The children were able to receive scholarships and entered the lists of students. It got to the point that this mother literally took her children to exams by the hand.
GettyImages wasn't the only one. After graduating from Kyōiku school, mothers arrive with their children. During the entrance or other exams, they live in hotels nearby and fully control the entry process. Even if a child fails, it only increases its influence and enthusiasm. next year The son will come.
Our famous mother writes in her book that children should not fall in love, as it completely ruins all plans. Every free moment is given to the children. In fact, she never had free time. A separate point is the complete absence of any romance with her husband. All children! Alas, my mother did not write anything about the state of their morale.
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GettyImages Probably can not say that we have something similar in our country. Yeah, parentage They like to give children to several circles at once, but there is no such undermining as in Japan. Be sure to write in the comments whether you think it is right to deprive your child of childhood for the sake of a future successful career.
Japanese education In the upper strata, it can be compared with the samurai code. You don't step left, you don't step right. And my mother is watching closely. Read our article on why we tend to believe our childhood was perfect. Thank you for staying with us!
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GettyImages Not so long ago editorial "Site" I already mentioned Japanese fads in terms of family. We talked about the fact that marriage is almost the only legal way to have a child. Despite the fact that ordinary Japanese people often bypass these rules, people with status simply cannot afford something like this. "The face of morality," so to speak.
This education is available to a limited number of people. Just fine. wealthy families They can afford it. Sometimes it seems absurd, because children begin to prepare for career growth almost from birth. And without “Keiko mom” here can not do. Their attention to children can be called a real obsession.
Despite the fact that in Japan all children are considered smart and gifted, wealthy people in most cases try to identify their child in the most prestigious institutions. Be it. kindergarten, school or university. There are cases when the heads of schools or gardens parents offered fabulous bribes, as long as their child was enrolled. That's the bigotry.
Against the background of the fact that the head of the family is constantly working and engaged in a career, all these issues are dealt with by the mother. And she has no equal in that regard. Japanese “keiko moms” act like a battering ram, completely without seeing the shores. The child falls under the pressure of learning from a very young age, he has almost no free time. And my mom keeps an eye on everything.
GettyImages "Keiko Mama" "Keiko Mama" is often called completely unscrupulous and immoral women. They can also be accused of having no love for their children. In fact, they are interested only in how the child comprehends science and whether he managed to perform it. homework. It doesn’t matter how he feels. The main thing is to do well in school.
Despite draconian parenting techniques and judgment, other Kyōiku mothers are envious. Not so much for them as for the success of their children. However, girls have a small chance to learn childhood, since mothers usually rely on their sons. That's why girls can decide on your own. As for boys, they have no choice at all.
It should be noted the absolute sacrifice of Kyōiku mother. Just as her child has no free time, so does she. These are usually short intervals for “eating” and “taking a nap.” As a joke, they can be called Madzillas (Mother plus Godzilla). This is confirmed by the experience of one such mother, who, after raising four, wrote a book about it.
She directly writes that she achieved success and all her children eventually made a serious career in medicine. This was preceded by a completely ascetic life. discipline And the best university in Japan. The children were able to receive scholarships and entered the lists of students. It got to the point that this mother literally took her children to exams by the hand.
GettyImages wasn't the only one. After graduating from Kyōiku school, mothers arrive with their children. During the entrance or other exams, they live in hotels nearby and fully control the entry process. Even if a child fails, it only increases its influence and enthusiasm. next year The son will come.
Our famous mother writes in her book that children should not fall in love, as it completely ruins all plans. Every free moment is given to the children. In fact, she never had free time. A separate point is the complete absence of any romance with her husband. All children! Alas, my mother did not write anything about the state of their morale.
Editorial
GettyImages Probably can not say that we have something similar in our country. Yeah, parentage They like to give children to several circles at once, but there is no such undermining as in Japan. Be sure to write in the comments whether you think it is right to deprive your child of childhood for the sake of a future successful career.
Japanese education In the upper strata, it can be compared with the samurai code. You don't step left, you don't step right. And my mother is watching closely. Read our article on why we tend to believe our childhood was perfect. Thank you for staying with us!
Photo preview and article .
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