Can a marriage break up if the wife can’t cook?

Not all women like to stand at the stove and please loved ones with delicious dishes. In fact, some people don't even try to find out. How to learn how to cook. Perhaps the way to a man’s heart is not through the stomach. However, one thing is clear: a hungry husband is grief in the family. Do you think a marriage could break up because of this? The cry of the soul of our hero today will put everything in its place.



Five years ago, I married a beautiful girl named Julia. Our relationship was just fine until we started living together. I work a lot, usually leave early in the morning and come in the evening. At the same time, Julia works remotely. Of course, I want not only a loving woman to come home, but also a delicious dinner.



But unfortunately, that usually doesn't happen. Julia does not like and does not want to cook. We used to cook together, especially on weekends. And then my wife got pregnant and there were other concerns. Now our child is a year and a half, Julia is still on maternity leave. My son just doesn’t get off her hands, he wants to be there 24/7. I know she doesn't have time to cook for me, but I'm not asking for much!

For example, last night, when I got home, the only thing waiting for me was cold pasta that clumped together. It's like that almost every day. Is that normal? I’ve talked to Yulia on this topic many times, but she constantly turns the arrows on the child. Like, it's a mess, not until she cooks.



So I threw away the pasta and started cooking dinner myself. On a watch almost 21, I'm angry and my wife is offended. I don't know if she's disgusted by what's happening. I spend all day at work to provide for my family. I try to give free time to my wife and child. In return, I get stuck noodles. Oh, my God, there's instructions on the package on how to make those damn pasta!

Who's right and who's wrong? Julia immediately called her mother. With mother-in-law, by the way, we have a rather strained relationship. Of course, she always takes the side of her daughter and makes me guilty. That's what happened.



“Draw conclusions, daughter! A good husband will never tell his wife that she doesn't cook well. If he doesn’t like your cooking, let him cook himself! he heard a shout from the phone. No, of course I can cook myself. But I don’t understand this question at all! I love my wife, really. However, every day the situation only heats up.

And most of all, the position of the mother-in-law is infuriating. So husbands need to quietly stuff bad food into themselves, just to avoid offending their wives? And then the couple get divorced, because for years they endure some annoying little things instead of talking about it honestly. Anyway, I tried. But nobody wants to listen to me.



Maybe I should give Julia some courses that will help her learn how to cook?

Yulia’s husband thinks in simple categories – this is clear. However, it seems to us that in this story family problems are much deeper and more serious. Would a truly loving wife care so much about her husband? Of course, with a small child in your arms, you get tired many times faster. But the simple option of cooking an elementary dinner can not cause so many difficulties.



Julia is not even trying to find a way out of the situation. She just calls her mother to acquit her. That doesn’t sound like an adult, does it?

Do you think the heroes of history will be able to establish relations peacefully? Boldly share your thoughts in the comments!