Is it sad and sad for lovers, not wives?

The status of a person in a relationship has enormous psychological power. And the more you fixate on others, the more you can worry about your position in their lives. We often forget that words are just words. conditioning They should not be taken too seriously. My wife and mistress can be said for sure.

Many women care about the place they occupy in the life of their man. However, there are those for whom other things are more important. So, some mistresses are very happy with their situation. Moreover, they do not want to become someone else for their partner. Why is that?



Maybe it's because these women have a lot of other important things in life. They know how to enjoy themselves and do not dwell on love. To perceive love as a kind of “dessert of life” can be very useful. Those who overload this part of being and make love its basis are much more likely to suffer and be sad.



You're going to ask why this is the case? Shouldn’t love be the foundation of our lives? I have to. That’s just such a foundation should not be romantic love, which depends on another person. Anything to do with someone else is complicated. monitor and forecast. And the lack of stability breeds anxiety and anxiety.



The foundation of everything must be first of all self-love and life in general. If this aspect is well developed, then you will never feel lonely and unhappy. Even if there is no one around.. You also don’t need to get married, for example.



You know perfectly well that finger-ring Everyone has a completely different attitude. And even if it means love to the very end for you, it may not be true for your man. For many, love is expressed very differently, and that’s normal.



It’s different if your plans go against your partner’s. This is where we must turn to love ourselves and be guided by it. If you You want to have kids. and plan your life together, and your loved one is not ready to change the status of your relationship, you should think carefully about whether you are on the way with this person.



Just please don’t blame your partner for wanting to live the way he lives. We create a connection with a person not in order to change him and his way of life. If in the process of developing a relationship, a person himself decides to go together, hand in hand, then this is fine. If not, it's okay. Be there, support and love as long as you feel comfortable.