Why do you not want to go to the garden and do cleaning there?

The departure of relatives from life gives rise to the sadness of the soul, which is difficult to cope with yourself. And trips to the parish can further disturb the already fragile mental balance. Let's try to figure out why people go there and whether you should follow their example.

Many people believe that we do not leave this world completely. Most religions agree that a person has a soul that can stay close to the living world or head to a better place. Anyway, I still believe that all people find peace after the end of life and they no longer care about the world of the living. All problems and confusion are left behind, nothing disturbs the deceased.



I sincerely hope that after a happy and joyfulWe relive those moments over and over again. That’s why it’s so important to think more about what’s happening to you right now. Life can be interrupted at any moment, so why not make every moment memorable?



Why do people come to the churchyard when those who have left no longer care about us? We do this to reassure ourselves and to talk to those who were dear to us. Many people need visualization and the feeling that a person is nearby. Tell your beloved grandmother about how her granddaughter is doing, complain about life, cry a little. When the heart is hard and the most understanding person is gone, we simply have no choice.



However, not everyone likes the atmosphere of the last resting place of the dead, especially in the post-Soviet countries. It's very gloomy and depressing, so many people don't want to go there. I'm sure it's not necessary at all. We can talk to our loved ones whenever we really need them.



You don’t have to hurt yourself or judge yourself in this case. You need to talk to get relief and be able to move on. It is important to remember that you should not be too attached to such an expression of negative emotions. You need to learn to make new acquaintances and communicate with live people. And it is also important to eliminate the cause of sadness in order to live a full life.



If your relatives are judging when you refuse to visit the churchyard, try to explain to them your perception of this situation. Tell me how hard it is for you to be there and how it affects you. I'm sure they can. understand.