Seven Wisdom Lessons Teach Me by Tango Teacher

The relationship between a man and a woman can be compared to a sensual dance. As in dance, the most important thing in a relationship is the understanding of the partners. You do not need to go to a psychologist to understand how a harmonious relationship between a man and a woman works. Sometimes people give us really valuable advice from whom we don’t even expect help. But in fact, it turns out that these tips are relevant throughout life, and their meaning is much deeper than it seems at first glance.



Today's edition. "Site" tell 7 Wisdom AdviceA dance teacher gave to one of his students. The girl said that in tango lessons, the teacher did not just teach her to dance. Every word about the art of dance could be applied in life. That's what a vocation teacher means!



Dance teacher "Why do you need a man who is in a hurry?" - there is nothing good in a hurry. It disturbs and spoils the whole dance. It does not inspire confidence in the future and does not allow you to relax. Such people are often insecure, and their partners will always be with them like pins.



“You must not guess the movements of a man. Who asked you to guess? Only a real man can teach a woman to follow her. A woman who can follow must not guess.”

A sense of harmony will never appear when there is no understanding between a man and a woman. They should be on the same wavelength. Achieving mutual understanding in relationships will help heart-to-heart conversations. If you have common interests, you want to establish communication, you need to share your experiences and support each other.



“If the dancer sees that the partner is trying to guess his movements, then he is not leading her well.” The dance is designed to show the beauty of a woman in dance. The dance was created just for her. If a woman is in a hurry and tenses, then the partner pulls or pulls her as he pleases. This way a woman will not be able to charm with her beauty and grace, because her partner does not let her do it.”

I wonder how to draw a parallel between tango and relationships. Obviously, if the partner understands what his mistakes are, he can fix everything. No one argues that a man is the leader and head of the family. But this does not mean that you need to keep a woman in tight gloves. If you both have personal space, if you trust each other, then there's no need to rush and pull the blanket over to your side, as they say.



Tango Woman: Don't be shy about being lazy. A dancer always takes a step after a man, he always takes the first step. A good partner understands this. It is strange in tango if a woman runs ahead of a man. Do not fly to the first call of a man insecure and ugly step. This man is waiting for your step because it reflects his intentions. The haste of a woman in dance only shows that a man is a lousy dancer. He does not know how to relax a woman and lead confidently, constantly pulling her.”



“You can’t just dance with that data.” Always be tall, especially when a man is shorter than you. This is much more important than following his requests when he leads you.”

It is not necessary to adapt to the partner, to satisfy all his requests. One of the things that every woman needs to remember is her identity. Don’t be embarrassed if your partner is lower than you. Straighten your back and dance.



“You have to stand on your feet so that a man has a sense of lightness beside you. You can’t just relax and hang on your partner. It’s hard to drag someone who can’t even stand alone.”

No matter how wonderful your man is, you should not forget about your self-development. You never know what fate will bring, but first of all you need to be confident in your abilities.



“What a partner, such a dance. With a bad partner will not be able to dance great, even if you learned your part by heart - in a relationship, as in dance, both partners should take part. Sometimes we get along with the wrong people. But they also teach us valuable lessons that we remember all our lives. If your partner isn’t right for you, you have to be brave to admit it.



The most beloved teachers we keep in our hearts are not those who know their subject well. These are people who love their work with all their heart. Thank you to the tango teacher for sharing your wisdom with us. His words can be interpreted in different ways, and everyone will find valuable advice in them.