Sergey Lazarev gives advice on how to never be offended

Sergey Lazarev, author of the acclaimed books “Diagnostics of Karma”, “Man of the Future” and “Survival Experience”, actively supports forgiveness of offenses as the main tool that will help to establish relationships with other people. What exactly does a famous parapsychologist mean, find out in our article.

Forgiveness of grievances What are so bad offenses? First of all, because they significantly affect the one who is offended, and not the offender. The offended person feels uncomfortable, it hurts, sense of injustice What's going on doesn't get out of his head. Of course, all this can not contribute to either mental or physical health.

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The emotional state of such a person is unstable. Prolonged grievances can affect quality of life and even lead to some ailments. This is why the art of forgiveness is so important in our lives. But how can you forgive a malicious offender? And why?



Why it is important to forgive

1. Keep the love in your soul.
   Resentment corrodes us from the inside, does not allow us to enjoy simple things. We focus on one thing and stop noticing how much good is around, how many people need our love and presence. Don’t let one person reduce the amount of love you can give to others. Those who really deserve it.
   
   
   
   
2. Believe in the power of the universe
   Everything happens for a reason. Very often, even the most unpleasant events lead to something good. Sometimes you just can’t anticipate all the nice things that will happen to you. Perhaps it was this unpleasant person who hurt you so much. play A role for your happy future. The universe knows better than we do.
   
   
   
   
3. Know yourself
   Every social contact we experience helps us to get to know ourselves a little better. We understand ourselves through our connection with other people. Yes, these interactions are not always the most enjoyable, but they can also benefit. Even if it is knowledge that it is better not to deal with such people.
   
   
   
   
4. Accept the real state of things
   Life isn't always fair. It often happens that good people get into trouble. It is important to remember that you have to be prepared for anything. Don't. lay down Because you don't deserve the bad things you think you do.
   
   
   
   
5. Act cautiously
   This paragraph is related to the previous one. Everyone. bitterness It teaches us to be a little more careful when choosing friends or acquaintances. It is also worth remembering that even the oldest and most reliable people can suddenly change their worldview and there is nothing wrong or wrong with it. Of course, you do not have to live constantly waiting for a stab in the back. But too much trust in others is also not worth it.
   
   
   
   

Forgiveness is not just about your relationships with others. Sometimes we cannot forgive ourselves for certain actions or even thoughts. In the first case, it is important to understand that you can not return the past, you can only try not to repeat the mistake. Our thoughts are free to be as they are. You do not need to deceive yourself or reproach for what only fleetingly came to your mind.