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She confessed to her husband in treason and went to her lover, and he turned out to be a villain.
Why do women cheat on their husbands? Some will say that this is a rhetorical question. Others will give a thousand reasons and give so many examples from life. Our story today can serve as a great food for the mind. Dear reader, we invite you to think about the subject. Infidelity and their motivation. We hope you'll support our idea. Now to the story!
I got married at a fairly young age: I was only 20 years old. And while my two-year-olds lived for their own pleasure, I learned all aspects of family life. But I always wanted something more than just sitting at home cooking and cleaning.
When we got married, Anton was 23 years old. He didn't have an apartment, so we moved in with his parents. They lived outside the city in a fairly large private house, so there was enough space. Mother-in-law and father-in-law got along well, there were never any problems.
They started a little later, when Anton decided to go to work so that we could buy our apartment. He was away so often that at some point I was used to it. And then we had a daughter, and the worries became much more. I stayed home all the time and took care of the baby.
Nothing foreshadowed trouble until I got a message on Facebook. Some stranger wrote. I opened the correspondence for interest, and then answered... It's like the arm stretched itself. In general, we began to correspond with Andrei, then met, and then everything was in a fog.
Yeah, I cheated on my husband. And then I realized what a terrible mistake I had made. I decided to confess everything. Anton was about to come over for the winter break, and I didn't want to pull the cat by the tail. It all happened very quickly and confusedly. That was the first time I saw my husband cry. He looked me in the eye and said, “What else have you been missing?”
He was right. We had everything for a comfortable life, because after 7 years of Anton’s trips abroad, we were able to settle down well. My husband’s question remained unanswered. I had no choice but to go and pack. I thought Andrew would be able to take me. But he said he wasn't in town now.
My daughter and I went to my mother’s house. She lived with my sister and her husband in a two-bedroom apartment in a quiet sleeping area. They recently had a baby. Of course, it was clear that I would not be able to stay with them for long. But I was hoping that Andrew would come back soon and get better. But he didn't come back...
Andrew stopped picking up the phone, ignored my calls and messages. I realized that I had just been abandoned without any explanation. When my mother found out, she went to Anton's the same day. She begged him to forgive me, to take me back. His parents were categorically opposed, and he did not give an answer, but promised to meet with me.
I was so excited that he would give me a second chance. And it turned out that he wanted to tell me who this Andrew really was. Friends helped my husband find out more about Andrew. He is divorced and lives in debt. Alimony for his two children is out of the question. I didn't listen anymore. I felt physically sick, like I was about to faint.
“If you don’t believe me, check it yourself. Here's all the data, the last thing my husband said when he left. On the table was a sheet of telephones, names and addresses. Devastated, I left the cafe and went home to my family. That's just how I crossed out everything I had. Worst of all, I have deprived my daughter of the opportunity to grow up in a full-fledged family. Can I forgive myself?
Why Women Cheat: Editorial Opinion When our editors learned about this story, their opinions were divided. Someone said that the woman herself was to blame and should have thought sooner. And someone is close to the position that all people have the right to make a mistake and a second chance in life. But we can never put ourselves in the place of the main character's husband. It is not easy for him in this situation.
By the way, one of my colleagues shared an interesting thought: You can't just go to work without consequences. A family has no future if a man is not at home. I could have asked my wife to go with him and live there. Who knows, maybe that would change everything?
Um, what do you think? Why do women cheat on their husbands? Boldly share your thoughts and impressions in the comments. Wait for you downstairs!
I got married at a fairly young age: I was only 20 years old. And while my two-year-olds lived for their own pleasure, I learned all aspects of family life. But I always wanted something more than just sitting at home cooking and cleaning.
When we got married, Anton was 23 years old. He didn't have an apartment, so we moved in with his parents. They lived outside the city in a fairly large private house, so there was enough space. Mother-in-law and father-in-law got along well, there were never any problems.
They started a little later, when Anton decided to go to work so that we could buy our apartment. He was away so often that at some point I was used to it. And then we had a daughter, and the worries became much more. I stayed home all the time and took care of the baby.
Nothing foreshadowed trouble until I got a message on Facebook. Some stranger wrote. I opened the correspondence for interest, and then answered... It's like the arm stretched itself. In general, we began to correspond with Andrei, then met, and then everything was in a fog.
Yeah, I cheated on my husband. And then I realized what a terrible mistake I had made. I decided to confess everything. Anton was about to come over for the winter break, and I didn't want to pull the cat by the tail. It all happened very quickly and confusedly. That was the first time I saw my husband cry. He looked me in the eye and said, “What else have you been missing?”
He was right. We had everything for a comfortable life, because after 7 years of Anton’s trips abroad, we were able to settle down well. My husband’s question remained unanswered. I had no choice but to go and pack. I thought Andrew would be able to take me. But he said he wasn't in town now.
My daughter and I went to my mother’s house. She lived with my sister and her husband in a two-bedroom apartment in a quiet sleeping area. They recently had a baby. Of course, it was clear that I would not be able to stay with them for long. But I was hoping that Andrew would come back soon and get better. But he didn't come back...
Andrew stopped picking up the phone, ignored my calls and messages. I realized that I had just been abandoned without any explanation. When my mother found out, she went to Anton's the same day. She begged him to forgive me, to take me back. His parents were categorically opposed, and he did not give an answer, but promised to meet with me.
I was so excited that he would give me a second chance. And it turned out that he wanted to tell me who this Andrew really was. Friends helped my husband find out more about Andrew. He is divorced and lives in debt. Alimony for his two children is out of the question. I didn't listen anymore. I felt physically sick, like I was about to faint.
“If you don’t believe me, check it yourself. Here's all the data, the last thing my husband said when he left. On the table was a sheet of telephones, names and addresses. Devastated, I left the cafe and went home to my family. That's just how I crossed out everything I had. Worst of all, I have deprived my daughter of the opportunity to grow up in a full-fledged family. Can I forgive myself?
Why Women Cheat: Editorial Opinion When our editors learned about this story, their opinions were divided. Someone said that the woman herself was to blame and should have thought sooner. And someone is close to the position that all people have the right to make a mistake and a second chance in life. But we can never put ourselves in the place of the main character's husband. It is not easy for him in this situation.
By the way, one of my colleagues shared an interesting thought: You can't just go to work without consequences. A family has no future if a man is not at home. I could have asked my wife to go with him and live there. Who knows, maybe that would change everything?
Um, what do you think? Why do women cheat on their husbands? Boldly share your thoughts and impressions in the comments. Wait for you downstairs!
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Buckwheat baked in the oven, which will be a thousand times more delicious than boiled