How to live a woman if the husband left after the appearance of the third child in the family

Sometimes you do not even think that the closest and dearest person can betray. Especially when it comes to a husband with whom he has lived for many years. How to regain trust Your spouse and is it possible at all?



The hero of today’s history had a hard time. Giving her husband three children, she could not imagine that one day her marriage will end. She never needed support and friendly advice as much as she does now. Let's help her keep her nose down and find the strength to move on!

I got married when I was still a student. Kostya turned my head and did everything to make me feel most loved. After the wedding, we began to live with his mother, as we had no money for our own housing. Times were difficult, and mother-in-law poured oil on the fire. She never liked me, and she never missed an opportunity to remind me. Nevertheless, I somehow came to terms with it and never conflicted with Alla Petrovna.

After a year together, I got pregnant and had a son. Kostya did not want a soul in him: he loved being a father. And I was in seventh heaven. When my son went to school, I got pregnant again. And after 9 months, she gave her husband a baby daughter.



Things went uphill: my husband was given a promotion, and I was a real keeper of the hearth. Even with my mother-in-law, things got better with time. When she died, we decided to sell her apartment and buy ours closer to the center. We repaired it and even bought a car. We never quarreled with Bones, solving all problems peacefully and for love.

I was very excited about our new home because there were wonderful people living next door. We met them during the move and immediately became friends. Maria Grigorievna and Alexander Ivanovich lived with their son Zhenya and his wife Katya. They recently got married but decided to stay with their parents.



Katya and I immediately found a common language, became real friends. We often spent time together, she loved to babysit our baby and was always ready to help out. My husband loved that I finally had a girlfriend to share everything with. Soon Katya became pregnant and gave birth to a son. She often consulted me as an experienced mother and used all my child-rearing tricks.

Worst betrayal of my life, but at some point things went awry. I guess I just didn't notice that something was going wrong. I recently had my third child. Everything was beautiful: roses, balls, cake. My husband took me and my baby home, and then he said we needed to talk seriously.



“I should have told you earlier, but I didn’t want you to worry about pregnancy. I know you'll never forgive me, but I'm leaving. “I’m going to Katya,” my husband said in a quiet, calm voice.

I'm speechless. It was like something broke inside... The first thought is, "What about our children?" But apparently my husband didn't care. Kostya did not wait for my answer and left. And then I looked around, and I realized that his things weren't in the apartment. Apparently, while I was having our third child, he took everything.



I immediately called my mother, who was looking after my son and daughter, and cried sobbing into the phone. It was as if she felt what had happened and said the only sentence: “I’ll be right there.”

Never in my life has it been so hard. I don’t know what would have happened if I hadn’t thought about children. I was looking at my newborn baby, and his gentle face comforted me. But I knew it would never be the same again.

My mother came alone and the children stayed with my father. “He will bite his elbows, you can be sure. When you get back to drink, you'll see. And this twigtail Katya I never liked! said my mother, hugging me.



“And if he does come, how can he be trusted again? What should I do? I asked. My mother replied that I would never forgive my husband and girlfriend for what they did. It remains to find the strength to live on...

How to survive the betrayal of your beloved husband? I don't think you can handle it alone. The heroine of the story was lucky that her parents were near her, ready to support and help with children. But what if a woman was left alone with three children in her arms? Unfortunately, such stories happen quite often in life.



If you've ever experienced this, what advice would you give an abandoned woman? Perhaps it is your words that will help you not to lose heart. Boldly share your thoughts in the comments!