Why is Grandma ashamed that all her grandchildren are from different men? Bashny.Net

Children do not always meet the expectations of their parents. No matter how hard they try, raising a native child, the child grows up to be different. Of course, the environment is also important. But how to be a loving mother and father, if their son or daughter windman?



This is the problem the heroine of today’s story faced. Her story hooked us and made us think. Why are parents and children so different sometimes? Is this really the case? generational Or are there other reasons?

I have been married for over 25 years. As a young girl, I believed that love could happen once and for all. I’m 50 years old now, and in all that time I’ve never thought about divorce. I was very lucky because almost all my friends managed to change a couple of husbands. Like gloves. And to be honest, I am even proud that my husband and I managed to go through all the joys and sorrows together.



We have an adult daughter who no longer lives with us. Throughout my childhood and youth, I tried to set an example for her. I raised her as a kind, sensitive and sensible person. She showed me what love should be. But the girl grew up and we stopped recognizing her. “Life is too short to spend on serious relationships and feelings,” she said.

Repeated not only in words, but in life. By nature, she is very amorous, so she was burned many times. My daughter met her first love at university. The guy turned her head so much that she jumped out to marry him and soon gave birth to her first child. Of course, she did not want to hear about education. We have repeatedly offered her our help.

After a couple of years, her daughter’s marriage fell apart: her husband cheated on her. She moved back to us for a while. It seemed that she came to her senses, found a job, became more serious. But soon she met an enviable man 15 years older than her. Again, this spark in the eyes, again rash actions. I moved in with my son and decided not to sign. So the second child came along.



My husband and I were just uncomfortable. How many times have we asked her to legalize their relationship? No use. The daughter just snapped and asked not to interfere in her affairs. How can you not climb here, if everything collapses right in front of your eyes? My daughter’s husband behaved very strangely. Everything is fine and calm, because he accuses our daughter of having a son from her first marriage. Why do that?

We're just getting used to it when my daughter says she moved into a rented apartment. He said he had a fight and was not planning to return. This time it was all her fault. Infidelity has ruined so many relationships. The daughter started another affair with a guy whom she knew for a month. And after a while, she called us and was stunned by the news: "I'm pregnant."



I'm ashamed. Honestly, I don’t even know how to react. Of course, I love my grandchildren very much. But they are all from different men... I don't think that's normal. My daughter assures me that everything is fine. She does not work and lives on alimony and child benefits. My dad and I haven't been listening in a long time. What's up? ?

Editorial The Windy Man He often lives with passion. He acts here and now, guided by his emotions and desires. They don’t think about the future and are selfish. It is not surprising that the daughter of today’s heroine behaves like this. She does not need parental advice and is unlikely to listen to them. However, do not forget that people tend to change. Who knows what will happen to this woman in the future?



What's your relationship with your parents? You may have experienced similar situations. It would be great if you shared your advice in the comments. Wait for you downstairs!