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Is it necessary to consult with a kindred soul, making a will?
When a woman breaks up with a man, one way or another, she thinks about it. What will be the new relationship?. Someone rethinks the mistakes of the past, and someone has to step on the same rake or face new difficulties.
For example, the heroine of our story today managed to go through a lot in her entire life. But what did such a difficult life experience lead to, and why is her daughter concerned about her mother’s situation? Read more about that.
My father left me and my mother when I was little. Since then, she raised me alone and did everything to make me a happy child. We were lucky to have our own two-bedroom apartment. At least some stability.
When I went to university and went to the capital, my mother began to live for herself. She finally let go of the past and met a new man. He lived outside the city in a private house and almost immediately invited his mother to move in. She, without hesitation, accepted his offer.
She decided to rent out our apartment immediately. At home, Uncle Koli began to take care of the house. I don't remember her as happy as she was then. Although we rarely saw each other, her eyes glowed with joy.
It's been like this for almost 10 years. During this time, I graduated from university, got married and had my first child. I continued to live in the capital, in a rented apartment. I did not plan to return home because I knew that my mother was more comfortable renting an apartment.
My mom and I called one day. She said she left Uncle Kohli and returned home. Her voice was very upset, so I decided to go and support her and find out what had happened.
It turned out that Uncle Kolya bequeathed his house to his daughter. My mother found out about it after the fact, and it hurt her very much. She said she took care of him all the time, did everything for him when he got sick. And my daughter never came to visit him in all these years, only called on holidays.
As always. Now her mother is waiting for her uncle to apologize and beg her to come back. “I recently visited him, wanted to know how he was, and to look at the house. It's a mess. A mountain of dishes, dirty laundry, a mouse hanged himself in the fridge. It's beautiful. He can’t do anything without me, my mother happily told me.
To be honest, I don't really understand that. I decided to ask her very carefully: “Mom, do you have anything to do with Uncle Kolya other than everyday life?” Apparently, my question made her very angry: “You don’t understand anything!”
Okay, at the end of the day, this is her life, and it's not up to me to judge how much better she'll be. She spent so many years of her life babysitting a grown man. What's all this for? Now she's sitting there waiting for him to call, thinking he's going to kneel in front of her.
They're not even married! It has nothing to do with his house. He doesn't want to leave him, he loves him. So it turns out that pride does not allow you to return yourself, and pity for a weak husband does not leave.
But most of all in this situation, I am saddened by the indifference of my mother to me and my granddaughter. Uncle Kohl always came first. Maybe that's how she's trying to drown out the pain of my father leaving?
We do not always understand the actions of other people. Even if they are our closest relatives. Imagining, What will be the new relationship?The mother of the storyteller hardly thought that she was waiting for 10 years of living together. Of course, she deserves to be considered. But the man didn't even want to know him.
Do you have any advice for the main character and her daughter? The latter also has a lot of reasons for offense.
Share your impressions in the comments. You may have been in a similar situation and have something to say.
For example, the heroine of our story today managed to go through a lot in her entire life. But what did such a difficult life experience lead to, and why is her daughter concerned about her mother’s situation? Read more about that.
My father left me and my mother when I was little. Since then, she raised me alone and did everything to make me a happy child. We were lucky to have our own two-bedroom apartment. At least some stability.
When I went to university and went to the capital, my mother began to live for herself. She finally let go of the past and met a new man. He lived outside the city in a private house and almost immediately invited his mother to move in. She, without hesitation, accepted his offer.
She decided to rent out our apartment immediately. At home, Uncle Koli began to take care of the house. I don't remember her as happy as she was then. Although we rarely saw each other, her eyes glowed with joy.
It's been like this for almost 10 years. During this time, I graduated from university, got married and had my first child. I continued to live in the capital, in a rented apartment. I did not plan to return home because I knew that my mother was more comfortable renting an apartment.
My mom and I called one day. She said she left Uncle Kohli and returned home. Her voice was very upset, so I decided to go and support her and find out what had happened.
It turned out that Uncle Kolya bequeathed his house to his daughter. My mother found out about it after the fact, and it hurt her very much. She said she took care of him all the time, did everything for him when he got sick. And my daughter never came to visit him in all these years, only called on holidays.
As always. Now her mother is waiting for her uncle to apologize and beg her to come back. “I recently visited him, wanted to know how he was, and to look at the house. It's a mess. A mountain of dishes, dirty laundry, a mouse hanged himself in the fridge. It's beautiful. He can’t do anything without me, my mother happily told me.
To be honest, I don't really understand that. I decided to ask her very carefully: “Mom, do you have anything to do with Uncle Kolya other than everyday life?” Apparently, my question made her very angry: “You don’t understand anything!”
Okay, at the end of the day, this is her life, and it's not up to me to judge how much better she'll be. She spent so many years of her life babysitting a grown man. What's all this for? Now she's sitting there waiting for him to call, thinking he's going to kneel in front of her.
They're not even married! It has nothing to do with his house. He doesn't want to leave him, he loves him. So it turns out that pride does not allow you to return yourself, and pity for a weak husband does not leave.
But most of all in this situation, I am saddened by the indifference of my mother to me and my granddaughter. Uncle Kohl always came first. Maybe that's how she's trying to drown out the pain of my father leaving?
We do not always understand the actions of other people. Even if they are our closest relatives. Imagining, What will be the new relationship?The mother of the storyteller hardly thought that she was waiting for 10 years of living together. Of course, she deserves to be considered. But the man didn't even want to know him.
Do you have any advice for the main character and her daughter? The latter also has a lot of reasons for offense.
Share your impressions in the comments. You may have been in a similar situation and have something to say.
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