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What happened to the priest’s insolent daughter-in-law?
What do you think the average looks like? priesthood? Humility, a large number of children, faith in God, and patriarchy? Well, maybe that's what happens. If you live by the commandments and instructions of the elder in the house. But life sometimes turns everything upside down, and people, as they say, do not know what they are doing.
We are not often written by male readers, but this is the case today. To be honest, our editorial staff was even in a slight shock after reading, but there is nothing you can do – we will publish. We hope for useful advice in the comments, as we are worried about the young man and his family.
Hello, dear ones, and have a good day. I came to you with a rather complicated story, and I want people to share with me their thoughts on what I can do. The situation is sad in itself, but complicated by factors directly related to my family.
So I'm 35 years old. I'm a man married recently. My whole family, including my mother, father, brother and sisters, lives in one big house. How are we different from others? We believe in God very much. Our way of life is not like most people. Every Saturday and Sunday we go to church. My father lives there because he is a pastor.
Again, it so happened that it is customary to look for a couple among people of the same great faith, so that later there were no problems and questions related to religiosity and some prohibitions.
But it turned out that during the next trip I met a girl. It was a small town, and the people I knew seemed open and welcoming. I still consider them very kind and remember only with warmth in my heart. So, that girl captivated me from the first minutes of our acquaintance.
And I, despite the fact that we are not accustomed to it, asked for her phone number so that I could talk again and maybe even meet. I was not frightened by the distance, nor by the fact that she was not as pious as I wanted her to be. I thought he would understand and accept it in time.
Then everything turned out at great speed. We walked together, got to know each other and got married a month and a half later. She soon became pregnant, making me very happy. Naturally, we moved into my family home. And for a while, everything was fine. Until I went back on a business trip to the same town.
The locals who found out who I married told me the truth. It turned out that my beloved wife had known many men and was unfaithful to me even after marriage. When I came to visit my parents... Upon learning of this, I had a very difficult conversation with her upon arrival, during which she confessed everything.
After that, my wife changed overnight. She started a tantrum that lasted several days. She kicked me out of our bedroom screaming and swearing. She screamed so we thought she was crazy and we don’t know how it will affect the baby.
Our family lives by owning several flower shops, for which I went on various business trips. Now my wife openly declares that half of their value belongs to her, because she is pregnant with an heir and will not leave the house. She scolds my whole family on what the light is worth and can, for example, go and turn over flower windows if she wants to.
I no longer live at home, rent an apartment and pay child support. I work as a handyman. My mother and sisters cook their “wife” food, and she doesn’t even say hello to them. My father, a respected man, is not allowed into the room of his own house, only swears and shouts. We even offered her to buy a separate apartment, help with money. But she's not interested. I like it when honest people act like servants.
And the worst part is there's nothing we can do about it. Earthly laws are no more important than our beliefs. The court might have been on our side, but where is it that a pastor would have kicked out his own son’s pregnant wife? It's never gonna happen. What to do, I can not even guess, because we do not do tests for paternity.
This is my sad story that continues to this day. Thank you to everyone who read it. I hope your advice helps a little. Thank you very much, people, and God bless you all.
We are not often written by male readers, but this is the case today. To be honest, our editorial staff was even in a slight shock after reading, but there is nothing you can do – we will publish. We hope for useful advice in the comments, as we are worried about the young man and his family.
Hello, dear ones, and have a good day. I came to you with a rather complicated story, and I want people to share with me their thoughts on what I can do. The situation is sad in itself, but complicated by factors directly related to my family.
So I'm 35 years old. I'm a man married recently. My whole family, including my mother, father, brother and sisters, lives in one big house. How are we different from others? We believe in God very much. Our way of life is not like most people. Every Saturday and Sunday we go to church. My father lives there because he is a pastor.
Again, it so happened that it is customary to look for a couple among people of the same great faith, so that later there were no problems and questions related to religiosity and some prohibitions.
But it turned out that during the next trip I met a girl. It was a small town, and the people I knew seemed open and welcoming. I still consider them very kind and remember only with warmth in my heart. So, that girl captivated me from the first minutes of our acquaintance.
And I, despite the fact that we are not accustomed to it, asked for her phone number so that I could talk again and maybe even meet. I was not frightened by the distance, nor by the fact that she was not as pious as I wanted her to be. I thought he would understand and accept it in time.
Then everything turned out at great speed. We walked together, got to know each other and got married a month and a half later. She soon became pregnant, making me very happy. Naturally, we moved into my family home. And for a while, everything was fine. Until I went back on a business trip to the same town.
The locals who found out who I married told me the truth. It turned out that my beloved wife had known many men and was unfaithful to me even after marriage. When I came to visit my parents... Upon learning of this, I had a very difficult conversation with her upon arrival, during which she confessed everything.
After that, my wife changed overnight. She started a tantrum that lasted several days. She kicked me out of our bedroom screaming and swearing. She screamed so we thought she was crazy and we don’t know how it will affect the baby.
Our family lives by owning several flower shops, for which I went on various business trips. Now my wife openly declares that half of their value belongs to her, because she is pregnant with an heir and will not leave the house. She scolds my whole family on what the light is worth and can, for example, go and turn over flower windows if she wants to.
I no longer live at home, rent an apartment and pay child support. I work as a handyman. My mother and sisters cook their “wife” food, and she doesn’t even say hello to them. My father, a respected man, is not allowed into the room of his own house, only swears and shouts. We even offered her to buy a separate apartment, help with money. But she's not interested. I like it when honest people act like servants.
And the worst part is there's nothing we can do about it. Earthly laws are no more important than our beliefs. The court might have been on our side, but where is it that a pastor would have kicked out his own son’s pregnant wife? It's never gonna happen. What to do, I can not even guess, because we do not do tests for paternity.
This is my sad story that continues to this day. Thank you to everyone who read it. I hope your advice helps a little. Thank you very much, people, and God bless you all.
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