10 things on which we spend ourselves in vain Bashny.Net

Some of our actions and the systems are able day after day to destroy the self-esteem, have a negative impact on the perception of the world and even stop us on the way to the goal.

Their deceit is that they grow, generally of initially positive attitudes. For example, we want to be polite, pleasant, fear of being branded as selfish, whereas a healthy ego does not harm. In short, from good motives, we often spend our strength in vain.When did this happen?

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1. Denying ourselves pleasure. In an effort not to sit back and catch more, we deprive ourselves of the main thing — time to recover.

2. Say "Yes" instead of "no." And this happens not in the field of bold ideas (you are 10 years and indulged in courses of passionate flamenco and suddenly had the courage to enroll in a dance Studio!). Unfortunately, we usually just give in to others, sacrificing one's own interests and is really important for you personally business.

3. Suffer. Hated the work, education profession, which obviously is not the soul, unloved people around... to Stebetsya with a variety of things. Question — is it worth it?

4. Smile when feel like crying. Endurance and willpower is good, but the constant mask is not for everyone, and there is nothing wrong.

5. Doing that is not soul. Of course, sometimes you need to wash the dishes, and very few people experience pleasure from it. But if you look at the problem wider, how many people around you do their job and devoted his life to his vocation?

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6. Do not abandon the oppressive communication. Sometimes friendship ends, friendly relations with colleagues can wait, and uninteresting to us humans is to remain somewhere in the past pages of life.

7. Save yourself the negativity — the anger, hurt or disappointment. All this can be channeled in a positive direction, to leave behind, finally, to Express your foe, to be overcome with envy — but not all the time to scroll in the head, wasting in vain the forces and nerves.

8. Create verbal negativity themselves. Gossip, pointless conversations about politics, condemnation of others, complaints about traffic jams — it all takes our time and peace fuse is spent.

9. Doing self-flagellation. Healthy self — criticism- a very rare phenomenon. Often berating ourselves, we do it in a big way, almost with pleasure. And absolutely in vain — sometimes it is better to support and praise.

10. We hope for a miracle. In fact, to believe in miracles is great. But faith must always be backed by action. Believe in yourself — follow your dream. Relying on God, not make a mistake myself. As he wrote to the psychologist Julia Cameron —pray to catch the bus, be quiet. And run for it.

We wish you prosperity and success. Don't waste your resources, be it mental strength or even your finances. published 

 

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! © econet

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