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Relationships with immature men
"Is he behaving like this with me because...
(well, and then tells you — what he is: immature, impulsive, irresponsible, and generally "got stuck in the child's position..."
Yeah.
Of course...
But I (somehow...) the question immediately arises...
— He's... okay.
— And in what position you are stuck??
For dance it takes two...
And the truth is that, usually, in a relationship with "child" by entering the same "children".
Children who are struggling in their infantile not to notice!
To displace it.
To ignore.
But thus, according to the law of projection, of course, see it in another.
In men.
And even more, choose, find, attract those.
Or... (and this is much more interesting!!) behave, so build the relationship that the man with them — ONLY IN SUCH a role and can be.
Of course, this is deeply unconscious, but...
But the fact of this choice that doesn't change.
And it's not even about the fact that "the World is a mirror and it shows you that you have within you actually".
(Although in certain circumstances this point of view, this view of meaning).
In this case, it's about what to choose "child" for the relationship can only be another child.
The attempt to place the responsibility for this choice on another, accusing him, saying: "I'm a normal, worthless again and I caught a man..." — just a sign that infantilism is.
But not in the other...
And in yourself.
Adults, real adults, are only for adults.
For a relationship.
With the other they are not interested.
And nothing to do.
But the "children" choose "children".
Because no one else they can not choose... published
Author: Sergey Muckin
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: /users/336295
(well, and then tells you — what he is: immature, impulsive, irresponsible, and generally "got stuck in the child's position..."
Yeah.
Of course...
But I (somehow...) the question immediately arises...
— He's... okay.
— And in what position you are stuck??
For dance it takes two...
And the truth is that, usually, in a relationship with "child" by entering the same "children".
Children who are struggling in their infantile not to notice!
To displace it.
To ignore.
But thus, according to the law of projection, of course, see it in another.
In men.
And even more, choose, find, attract those.
Or... (and this is much more interesting!!) behave, so build the relationship that the man with them — ONLY IN SUCH a role and can be.
Of course, this is deeply unconscious, but...
But the fact of this choice that doesn't change.
And it's not even about the fact that "the World is a mirror and it shows you that you have within you actually".
(Although in certain circumstances this point of view, this view of meaning).
In this case, it's about what to choose "child" for the relationship can only be another child.
The attempt to place the responsibility for this choice on another, accusing him, saying: "I'm a normal, worthless again and I caught a man..." — just a sign that infantilism is.
But not in the other...
And in yourself.
Adults, real adults, are only for adults.
For a relationship.
With the other they are not interested.
And nothing to do.
But the "children" choose "children".
Because no one else they can not choose... published
Author: Sergey Muckin
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: /users/336295
