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The lie of "forgiveness"
Talking with a friend, psychologist and coach, she talks about her friend that criticism poured mud, and about your advice to her - " forgive them."
I was just outraged!!
What ?!!
What "forgive" then?!!
No, maybe I'm completely wrong psychologist, but I would say just the opposite.
"Hate them!
Get mad at them!
Offense.
Feel the pain.
Impotence.
Despise.
And get angry again... and again hate.
If it's actually there!
Not to suppress your feelings!!
And so — as long as these feelings are exhausted.
Not subside.
And will not melt — in something else.
To calm indifference.
In warm love.
Maybe in cold contempt.
Or — will remain the anger and hatred!
But that's when it ' ll be true to you!
Not a mask, where you "forgiveness" will attempt to suppress and disguise their true feelings.
Its present I !
Feelings are the only true reality, is your power, your communication — with yourself, with the deep Ya.
Don't betray her by trying to rape her himself about forgiveness !
Author: Sergey Muchkin, psychologist
Source: /users/336295
I was just outraged!!
What ?!!
What "forgive" then?!!
No, maybe I'm completely wrong psychologist, but I would say just the opposite.
"Hate them!
Get mad at them!
Offense.
Feel the pain.
Impotence.
Despise.
And get angry again... and again hate.
If it's actually there!
Not to suppress your feelings!!
And so — as long as these feelings are exhausted.
Not subside.
And will not melt — in something else.
To calm indifference.
In warm love.
Maybe in cold contempt.
Or — will remain the anger and hatred!
But that's when it ' ll be true to you!
Not a mask, where you "forgiveness" will attempt to suppress and disguise their true feelings.
Its present I !
Feelings are the only true reality, is your power, your communication — with yourself, with the deep Ya.
Don't betray her by trying to rape her himself about forgiveness !
Author: Sergey Muchkin, psychologist
Source: /users/336295
