Whispers of fate...

Life is merciless to those who are not able to notice its messages.

At first it throws us completely harmless hints in the form of some simple articles in the magazine, advertising on billboards, accidentally uttered by someone of the phrase, which for some reason we isolate from the main street noise.

All these signs are not so active and not so significant to cause us any physical harm, they are sent to touch while only our soul, which received impetusmust consult reason, and together with him to protect us from the upcoming trials.

But how do you learn to notice those signals? Because during the day we see around us a huge number of other, distracting “messages.”





Basically, we prevent our inner mindset to search for waves of constant positive, the desire to see only what we want to see our veiled selfishness. This implies the aspiration in whatever began to feel as comfortable as possible, because nobody wants to purposely throw yourself in a situation restrictions, and few characteristic of harmonious existence in a state of austerity.

But it distracts us from the right way of seeing things. For example, when one of us is in love, he suddenly starts to see and hear everything around him just that at the moment wants to feel his heart.

He or she speaks some foreign language we hear around songs in this language; the culture characteristic of a particular cuisine – we, with the exaltation of the child, we see on the shelves in the supermarket wine production of Uruguay, although it didn't even know that such a thing exists; she is a fan of any style of dress, colors, or fancier of a certain breed of dog, and these preferences are then imprinted the image of a loved one in our minds.

Seeing all these “signals”, we are naive to think that this is the heavenly message that we found exactly what were looking for, and should immediately grab it in your hands, we can't be ahead of anybody else.

Do you really think that the signs of destiny should always be positive and according to your momentary mood?





You in truth are inclined to see only what you want to see? Then fate will never be able to reach up to you. Her voice is faint at first, then spank you like a naughty child, and after that if you still continue to resist, will be held for you career a bulldozer.

How, then, to prevent such hard re?

The first and most important rule — do not try to indulge in wishful thinking! Step away from habitual, look at the situation as if from outside, listen to everything at this point tells you from the environment, whether close friends or just a passer-by.

Immerse yourself in a state of ambivalence, try to turn off your wave of positivity, at least half. May you have a dual view, then you can realistically assess, understand, comprehend what to do next.

On the way home, try not to notice only positive characters that you would like to see, dig deeper, try to see those things that are uncharacteristic of your worldview.

Even the actions of people never analyze the way you used to do it — because some of us grew up on the books of Dostoevsky, someone was playing a charade, and someone computer game has become the real world. Who grew up in wealth - will never understand the needs of the poor, as well as healthy people will not be able to feel really all suffering and dying from cancer.

Just as it is with the signs of fate. Not always in a state of absolute happiness, you adequately will be able to notice the character, it is destiny.

 



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This approach may cause you disappointment. DON'T BE AFRAID! It is easier to feel the void in the beginning than when you get at least to the middle of it. Do not attempt to pull the situation the most colorful shirt, look at her, while she stands naked in front of your questioning mind. The only way you will be able to see the real shape of her body.

The path to happiness is paved with puzzles - marks which so lavishly scattered around us fate. They will tell us how and where to move. There will be only right to put them in specific cells, and to make sure of whether they are paintings...published

 

Author: Helen Sharman

 



Source: itseasyaslife.blogspot.com/2016/06/blog-post_11.html