Attractive people have just one feature

There are people who absolutely do not meet generally accepted standards of beauty that do not strive for perfection and do not follow fashion, but they have some inexplicable, almost magical appeal.

The website is divided into the study of "TIME" magazine, which tried to answer what really attracts us to other people. And it's not appearance, as suggested by most.







The answer is: most importantly, what touches people's emotions. "Cheesy," you might say.

But not all so simple:emotions should not just be, and to be sincere, and most importantly — simple. People with easy to understand others emotions is more attractive in their eyes. Regardless of their appearance.

The fact that we are unconsciously looking for similarities with the mentality of person, and accordingly, with his thoughts and usually finding it, unconsciously begin to feel attracted to this man.







To such conclusions came as a result of the experiment, Professor, Department of social neuroscience at the University of lübeck (Germany) Silke Anders: she showed the group of volunteers movies in which the actress expressed fear or sadness.

After watching the participants in the study were asked to rate what they saw. It turned out that the better people understand the true emotions of the characters, the more those heroines, they are attracted to, completely regardless of their physical abilities.

While watching, the participants were also measured the activity of the brain area that is responsible for the attraction and sympathy for another person, the subjects showed increased activity in those cases where the feelings and experiences of the heroines seemed to them most clear.







In other words, the ability to easily decipher and accept other people's emotions makes us trust another person: we feel that we could find common language with him, and we are unconsciously attracted to him.

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