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Why are we so sex-crazed
Sexual experience is one of the most beautiful parts of our lives. During intimacy, people can virtually dissolve in each other and to reach the highest point of pleasure – anyone familiar with these feelings, understand the importance of sex in human life. Such moments allow our minds to disconnect from many of life's problems and dissolve in pure pleasure.
But if the pleasure of sexual intercourse is all-consuming which is why many people can not get enough, wanting all the time again and again? What is the cause of sexual addiction? And why is their an endless race for pleasure does not lead them to anything but frustration and an even greater thirst for satisfaction?
To answer these questions should first carefully examine the society in which we live and to understand its basic cultural values and aspirations.
Sixty four million two hundred sixty eight thousand eight hundred fifty seven
Sex in the culture of social exclusion
Paradoxically, the rapid development of technology has not made the people, but rather, distanced us from each other. Yes, of course, the Internet has facilitated communication over large distances. Now does not cost anything to Skype with someone who lives on the other side of the globe.
And thus, we always seek for new and new contacts. No matter how many of us have "friends" in social networks, many still feel alone. And all because online relationships are extremely superficial. Communication by Internet, phone and even Skype can't replace real human relationships.
Too much information is lost in the jungle of wires – if eye contact can be somehow accomplished using Skype, tactile sensations (banal handshake or friendly hug) still can not be transferred through the web and other technological innovations.
In addition, because of the cruelty that somehow breaks into our lives from time to time, many people have just closed from the outside world by building a psychological wall between themselves and society.
Let's not forget about the economic development, which also affected the culture of communication of people. How the economy affects our attitude to each other? The most direct way!
Now goods on the market is much more than a person really need. We don't have to change to the new technique, only because there are new, more sophisticated, models. There is no need to change the wardrobe, but we strongly assert that this is very important.
To get us to buy more and more products, advertisers are constantly coming up with new incentives that, in General, be reduced to the basic aspirations of man, such as the need for social communication and social community, as well as basic human instincts such as the desire to reproduce.
Hence the desire to achieve success and respect in society. We are told that a particular product will make us more confident and more attractive to the opposite sex; the sex we sell in magazines and on television, because it is – and basic instinct, and social communication.
Not surprisingly, after such information is pressure, people begin to perceive sex as something valuable in itself, conducive to all forms of success in life. It is clear that people begin chasing him. But here's the thing: in this race for pleasure they still can't get no satisfaction, as are empty inside.
Sex is replacing love?
The fact that sex itself is not the object of our subconscious desires. He is only an incarnation is an act of love, not its replacement. One may RUB against each other and even get physical pleasure, but that feeling will be short-lived, and soon we will again need this source of momentary pleasure.
If we're talking about sex as an expression of the strongest human affection, the sex becomes something more than a selfish act of self-gratification by another person – this is sexual contact without mutual attachment of heart.
Unfortunately (or fortunately) sex as physical intimacy, could provide such proximity to the plane of spiritual contact that we really need. Even the orgasm more intense when he painted feelings, because in addition to physical pleasure partners will also experience mental and emotional lift. Empty sex is such a feeling can not give.
Sex and transcendence of his own ego
If to explain in more accessible language, during the next we are lost, in the process, and in partner, after all, our pleasure depends not only from our actions but from the actions of the partner, we would become one.
Our ego ceases to exist on the same level and moves on to another stage. We begin to recognize themselves as part of the whole, because the boundaries between "I" and "you" is erased.
As a result, understanding themselves as parts of a whole (place and situation), feeling at home in the warmest sense of the word. In addition, enjoy the process captures us so that at the time our consciousness is freed from working on routine problems and worries.
It describes the feelings cause dependence on intercourse. But, paradoxically, these feelings only occur when sex is not that other, as a result of a deep personal attachment. To replace that affection with physical contact will not work.
Ninety two million seven hundred forty two thousand two hundred ninety
Rare names for complex emotions that we all sometimes experienceSelfie: a new trick of perception, or in search of lost identity
Otherwise, there is only momentary pleasure. It turns out that people in the pursuit of vivid sensations want more and more sex, but not getting the desired emotions, want more and more.
They seek to fill their soul through the number of sexual contacts, forgetting about their quality and not knowing what to feast on empty emotionally through physical contact, it's like trying to drink from an empty well.published
Translation Anna Kiseleva
Source: mixstuff.ru/archives/113771
But if the pleasure of sexual intercourse is all-consuming which is why many people can not get enough, wanting all the time again and again? What is the cause of sexual addiction? And why is their an endless race for pleasure does not lead them to anything but frustration and an even greater thirst for satisfaction?
To answer these questions should first carefully examine the society in which we live and to understand its basic cultural values and aspirations.
Sixty four million two hundred sixty eight thousand eight hundred fifty seven
Sex in the culture of social exclusion
Paradoxically, the rapid development of technology has not made the people, but rather, distanced us from each other. Yes, of course, the Internet has facilitated communication over large distances. Now does not cost anything to Skype with someone who lives on the other side of the globe.
And thus, we always seek for new and new contacts. No matter how many of us have "friends" in social networks, many still feel alone. And all because online relationships are extremely superficial. Communication by Internet, phone and even Skype can't replace real human relationships.
Too much information is lost in the jungle of wires – if eye contact can be somehow accomplished using Skype, tactile sensations (banal handshake or friendly hug) still can not be transferred through the web and other technological innovations.
In addition, because of the cruelty that somehow breaks into our lives from time to time, many people have just closed from the outside world by building a psychological wall between themselves and society.
Let's not forget about the economic development, which also affected the culture of communication of people. How the economy affects our attitude to each other? The most direct way!
Now goods on the market is much more than a person really need. We don't have to change to the new technique, only because there are new, more sophisticated, models. There is no need to change the wardrobe, but we strongly assert that this is very important.
To get us to buy more and more products, advertisers are constantly coming up with new incentives that, in General, be reduced to the basic aspirations of man, such as the need for social communication and social community, as well as basic human instincts such as the desire to reproduce.
Hence the desire to achieve success and respect in society. We are told that a particular product will make us more confident and more attractive to the opposite sex; the sex we sell in magazines and on television, because it is – and basic instinct, and social communication.
Not surprisingly, after such information is pressure, people begin to perceive sex as something valuable in itself, conducive to all forms of success in life. It is clear that people begin chasing him. But here's the thing: in this race for pleasure they still can't get no satisfaction, as are empty inside.
Sex is replacing love?
The fact that sex itself is not the object of our subconscious desires. He is only an incarnation is an act of love, not its replacement. One may RUB against each other and even get physical pleasure, but that feeling will be short-lived, and soon we will again need this source of momentary pleasure.
If we're talking about sex as an expression of the strongest human affection, the sex becomes something more than a selfish act of self-gratification by another person – this is sexual contact without mutual attachment of heart.
Unfortunately (or fortunately) sex as physical intimacy, could provide such proximity to the plane of spiritual contact that we really need. Even the orgasm more intense when he painted feelings, because in addition to physical pleasure partners will also experience mental and emotional lift. Empty sex is such a feeling can not give.
Sex and transcendence of his own ego
If to explain in more accessible language, during the next we are lost, in the process, and in partner, after all, our pleasure depends not only from our actions but from the actions of the partner, we would become one.
Our ego ceases to exist on the same level and moves on to another stage. We begin to recognize themselves as part of the whole, because the boundaries between "I" and "you" is erased.
As a result, understanding themselves as parts of a whole (place and situation), feeling at home in the warmest sense of the word. In addition, enjoy the process captures us so that at the time our consciousness is freed from working on routine problems and worries.
It describes the feelings cause dependence on intercourse. But, paradoxically, these feelings only occur when sex is not that other, as a result of a deep personal attachment. To replace that affection with physical contact will not work.
Ninety two million seven hundred forty two thousand two hundred ninety
Rare names for complex emotions that we all sometimes experienceSelfie: a new trick of perception, or in search of lost identity
Otherwise, there is only momentary pleasure. It turns out that people in the pursuit of vivid sensations want more and more sex, but not getting the desired emotions, want more and more.
They seek to fill their soul through the number of sexual contacts, forgetting about their quality and not knowing what to feast on empty emotionally through physical contact, it's like trying to drink from an empty well.published
Translation Anna Kiseleva
Source: mixstuff.ru/archives/113771
