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To let go of the other to distance themselves
When it comes to wanting control over another person, few people think about how it feels to the one in control.
Moreover, the "abuser" that is controlling hardly thinks about how he feels himself in a state of embarrassment and pressure. This state of "take a step to nowhere" — the worst in a relationship.
What does it mean to let go of the other to distance yourself? This is to measure a portion of the internal space, which for you is responsible for personal development, freedom of choice and personal experience. This is a space where you feel good, regardless of whether you have a partner or not. By the way, your partner also has a space to which there is no access to others.
It is the inner changes made in this space two partners will determine the ease in the relationship. In total it is necessary to try to allow these changes.
But the ability to let go is not an easy skill, but it is vital. Words are hard to describe how trust is formed, because it is in the plane States.
Imagine making a dive in the pool. Behind the fears, the difficult decision, the intention to jump and actually jumping.
The fact that during the jump you can hardly doubt the existence of gravity, pressure, resistance of water and air, and other physical characteristics that will lead you a few seconds in a pool of water. Also you don't think about the temperature of the air, water, but nevertheless they exist and have always existed, regardless of your thoughts. You do not need any special control of their availability in order to make the leap — you just know that they are.
The same thing happens when you trust yourself. You have no control over the actions of the partner, but know that all will be well. Accordingly, the partner, sensing the weakening pressure will want to turn to face you and your relationships have a chance to reach a new level.published
Author: Elena Osokina
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: osokina.com.ua
Moreover, the "abuser" that is controlling hardly thinks about how he feels himself in a state of embarrassment and pressure. This state of "take a step to nowhere" — the worst in a relationship.
What does it mean to let go of the other to distance yourself? This is to measure a portion of the internal space, which for you is responsible for personal development, freedom of choice and personal experience. This is a space where you feel good, regardless of whether you have a partner or not. By the way, your partner also has a space to which there is no access to others.
It is the inner changes made in this space two partners will determine the ease in the relationship. In total it is necessary to try to allow these changes.
But the ability to let go is not an easy skill, but it is vital. Words are hard to describe how trust is formed, because it is in the plane States.
Imagine making a dive in the pool. Behind the fears, the difficult decision, the intention to jump and actually jumping.
The fact that during the jump you can hardly doubt the existence of gravity, pressure, resistance of water and air, and other physical characteristics that will lead you a few seconds in a pool of water. Also you don't think about the temperature of the air, water, but nevertheless they exist and have always existed, regardless of your thoughts. You do not need any special control of their availability in order to make the leap — you just know that they are.
The same thing happens when you trust yourself. You have no control over the actions of the partner, but know that all will be well. Accordingly, the partner, sensing the weakening pressure will want to turn to face you and your relationships have a chance to reach a new level.published
Author: Elena Osokina
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: osokina.com.ua
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