Things I learned in 40 years

Things that I learned in forty years— and we want you to not repeat my mistakes!

Famous life coach and business coach Andrea Reiser recently celebrated its 40th birthday. She says that over the last decade of his life he learned more than the first 30 years. And now she shares with us this experience.

Here is her 47 guidance for all who are still under 40.

1. That's fine — not a damn thing to be understood in the art. Don't be afraid to admit it.

2. Don't waste your time worrying and moaning about things that are beyond your control. Just let it go.

3. Everything you see depends on how you look at it.

4. Stop comparing your life with other people's lives! Now!

5. Listen to those who deserves it. Do listen! This is one of the most useful tips that I can give you.

6. It was fantastic to bring together old friends who go way back have not seen. It's one of the fun things in life.

7. Morning is rarely good, if it was a good night.

8. If you go to the supermarket with dirty hair and no makeup — no problem!

9. Experience to remember, things — no.

10. Self-confidence is very beautiful.

11. Laugh! It's worth it.

12. While some people will continue to surprise you with the depth of their stupidity and greed, others will show you new heights on the side of kindness and compassion. Keep believing in people!

13. Don't waste your life on expectations, hopes and dreams.

14. If you are looking for someone to give you joy, you'll never learn to be happy alone.

15. Grudges aren't worth it.

16. You will never regret the day spent in vain, if you can someone please.

17. "Thank you" and "please" are words that are always appreciated and always appropriate.

18. Tell that little but loud voice in your head that prevents you to focus, to shut up. It works!

19. The food doesn't matter. Meetings and table also do not matter. The value is the company itself.

20. To be super-busy — it's not meant to be an honest, important, popular or successful. Actually being healthy is better than being busy.

21. Despite all your speculation, you don't have a clue about what happens behind the doors of other ludic.

22. Almost all of our bad deeds and the bitter disappointments occur because of jealousy.

23. If something makes you happy doesn't mean that it can do the same other person.

24. Not always in your troubles someone to blame. Often look in the mirror.

25. You can disagree with someone's opinion or judgment, but this does not mean that these people are wrong. Never argue on politics, religion and love.

26. Friendship changes with time. Sometimes she ends. And that's fine.

27. Sunscreen is your best friend for the summer.28. Stop poetiziruet and to romanticize the past. Stop fantasizing about how good you will be in the future. Feel the life now. Make every day and every moment mattered.

29. Revising old photos. It soothes the soul.

30. Sometimes you have to do something just because it is right. It's quite inconvenient. Most often, it is inconvenient. But it's almost always worth it.

31. Do not limit yourself during arguments. Sometimes the hard conversation — much better than unspoken resentment and misunderstanding.

32. Some events just should not happen. The sooner you realize this and abandon the false expectations, the better.

33. If someone can't find a solution to your problem, and to you it seems obvious, it is likely that he has already tried to solve it that way, but it didn't work.

34. A good night sleep is God's gift that could change everything.

35. People will spend their time on you if you are important to them. If not, then you overestimate your importance.

36. Sometimes you have to take on difficulties. In the name of love, peace and harmony.

37. Do not allow yourself to be angry with other people. Show more compassion.

38. Stop worrying about that has nothing to do with the case right now. Stop wasting energy for no fault of your things.

39. Accept and rejoice all the changes in his life.

40. Be polite and smile — these are completely different things.

41. Silence is the best way of recovery and healing.

42. Handle one thing at a time. Break large problems into small doable things. Everything will work out.43. Life is what happens while you're waiting for the next big feat or breakthrough. You must learn to feel the flavor of each day.

44. If you leg it and focus on what you do well, then everything will be much better.

45. Everything happens for a reason. Sometimes you see it immediately, but it definitely is.

46. Do not set ambitious goals. Better focus on optimal lifestyle. Keep your eyes and mind open.

47. Have the courage to take risks. Use all the possibilities. Because they may never appear before you again.published

Author: Konstantin Shiyan

 

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Source: lifter.com.ua/47-veshchey-o-kotorih-ya-uznala-tolko-v-sorok-let