Can't wait to get married, or Marriage Italian style

Said Adriano : "Marriage is an exaggeration. As if a hungry man bought the whole restaurant."

I spent the whole month trying to understand when, on whom and how to marry Italians. It turned out, they pulled the "unfortunate" event! If you know that, according to a Russian proverb, a good deal not be called marriage.

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The Italians run from marriage like the plague. According to inexorable statistics, over the five years, namely from 2008 to 2013, 55 thousand local men had managed to evade marriage. In 2013 was registered a negative record of weddings in Italy. Postponing the promenade to the altar a couple of years up to forty, the Italians blame the career, the high cost of living and lack of time for personal life. But in vain!

Recent scientific studies have proven that marriage is a positive impact on health — primarily men. Who discovered the relationship between the civil state and human health British doctors, for decades, watched nine thousand married men in the world. Now, on the basis of medical examinations, tests of respiratory activity and brain activity, doctors can safely say that married men are in much better shape than their counterparts, not burdened by marriage. It will be necessary on occasion to talk about this study to my husband!

Modern Italians prefer official marriage, civil unions, and even if the matter is brought before the altar, hedged, choosing the regime of separation of property. Less likely to get married in Umbria, a Central region of Italy, South Sardinia, mostly in the Northern Autonomous province of Bolzano.

After all, if we are wedding to be, men of a Beautiful country (Bel Paese) I will almost certainly prefer the wedding in Church (55%) civil ceremony in the registry office (45%), after all the Italians are old-fashioned and sentimental. Jokes jokes, but on wedding preparations here assign about a year, carefully planning all the details of the upcoming event and picky when selecting a place for the wedding and subsequent holiday. By the way, Rome and its magnificent views lead in "the hit parade" the "wedding" of the cities, followed by romantic Venice, the magnificent city of Florence and cosy Verona.

But, again, before the wedding must still endure! Here, for example, as it happens, enjoy each other boyfriend and girlfriend, move in together, maybe even get engaged. And then comes to life community: colleagues interested in the what and how, curious relatives, alluding to the wedding of my parents, making friends... Other couples do not stand up and disintegrate.

Curiously, if the number entered into between the Italians of marriages has been steadily falling, marriage to foreign women (or at least — with foreigners), this negative trend did not affect. If you go to the person, the nationality, the most of choosing his wife from the foreign Italians prefer Romanians. But Italians as alternative choose to fellow Moroccans. And all this in a country where still admonishes the young men, remembering the old proverb "Moglie e buoi dei paesi tuoi", that is "Wife and oxen from your home village"!

Ideal woman? The adventurous Italian ladies of the women's Association Associazione Donne e Qualità della Vita conducted a survey of thousands of men from 25 to 50 years and found what must be one lucky girl that will go to the altar with an Italian macho. First of all, the successful candidate in Italian wife's husband should... like his mother in law. Next nice, if a potential spouse will be financially independent. In addition, the Italians will certainly appreciate the entrepreneurial spirit of the girl in bed. But the traditional "props" like common interests, culinary talents, domesticity and cleanliness in modern Italy depart even a second plan, and what next!

As unexpected and preferences of young Italians in terms of wedding dresses... 30% of respondents would like to see their beloved in "a short dress, but not to the floor below was visible legs", 25% like the neckline, 20% prefer to see a deep cut on the back and only 14 % of Italians do not forget about common sense and speak out against the abundance of lace, pearls and sequins to "then not to go crazy, helping it all off". But 11% of Italians remain romantics, and we hope that the bride will surprise them on a holiday, choosing a dress different from that normally inherent style.

What then do you say? Italian to lure to the altar as difficult as to wait here snow in August: brides girls go over the years. But in fairness it is worth noting that the Italians and divorce less often than their neighbors in Europe in the first place — as though it cynically sounded! — because of the financial losses inevitably associated with the divorce question.

The secret to a happy marriage? I think if someone will descend the revelation, he will receive the Nobel peace prize. And while you can unleash the imagination and dream about a fabulous wedding in the country dolce vita — the Italians because, according to statistics, prefer women!

 

 

Author Anna Chertkova

 

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