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Expectation is the root cause of resentment
Resentment is one of the most negative and destructive feelings for the person. We are offended by people who in our lives mean something, to the fate that was against us is unfair, in life, because it did not work out quite as we expected.
Here lies the real cause of all grievances, expectations.
When they are not met, we are offended. But the behavior of others may differ from expected us, because all people are different and their ideas about "proper" behavior can also vary. Learn to accept people for who they are – a way to avoid offense.
It must be remembered that the world through the eyes of another person do not just like your own, it is fundamentally different. Deeper and less conscious resentment – resentment at life. "It's a shame that all this had to happen", — say all of us. But the reality that we have now, we have created ourselves. Your thoughts, ideas, beliefs. So offended no one, need to take responsibility for their lives.
But itself should not be blamed. Taking responsibility and blaming yourself – it is a different concept. The realization that we ourselves are the Creator of your life, their illnesses and problems in life, but we had a good reason, we cease to be offended in life. And not always something to expect.
Life is complex and beautiful in all its manifestations! published
Author: Yulia Kravchenko
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
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Here lies the real cause of all grievances, expectations.
When they are not met, we are offended. But the behavior of others may differ from expected us, because all people are different and their ideas about "proper" behavior can also vary. Learn to accept people for who they are – a way to avoid offense.
It must be remembered that the world through the eyes of another person do not just like your own, it is fundamentally different. Deeper and less conscious resentment – resentment at life. "It's a shame that all this had to happen", — say all of us. But the reality that we have now, we have created ourselves. Your thoughts, ideas, beliefs. So offended no one, need to take responsibility for their lives.
But itself should not be blamed. Taking responsibility and blaming yourself – it is a different concept. The realization that we ourselves are the Creator of your life, their illnesses and problems in life, but we had a good reason, we cease to be offended in life. And not always something to expect.
Life is complex and beautiful in all its manifestations! published
Author: Yulia Kravchenko
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Join us in Facebook , Vkontakte, Odnoklassniki
Source: www.twiy.ru/ojidanie-prichina-obidy/
