9 categories of connections among people affect the destiny of man

Any meeting in life is not accidental. Each for something and somehow given to you. Each leaves its mark in Your life.

According to the Law of karmic connections, all events in life are divided into nine categories according to the degree of influence on the destiny of man and the degree of approximation of karmic connections:

1. Children (they are the closest and most important to our karma people in life);
2. Favorite;
3. Wife;
4. Parents, brothers and sisters;
5. Relatives;
6. Friends;
7. Colleagues;
8. Friends;
9. Passers-by.



Close karmic relationship means that we have met many times in your previous incarnations, were in close relationships and may have been guilty of something before a man or he is before us. Maybe we caused a great tragedy for him in the past and now paying the price for his brutal mistakes that are forced to serve this man, to fulfill his every whim, to listen to complaints. If we put the fate in such circumstances, therefore, there is a reason.

The greater the distance of karmic relationships, the less we met and had energy contacts in the past, as well as less they will have in real life.
It is believed that from incarnation to incarnation, we turn "packs" or, better to say, "baskets", as Chicks of one brood. "Basket" differ from each other by vibrations. These vibrations we will recognize the person from his "basket", no matter how the fate of us scattered. "Suddenly" having met, we immediately understand each other perfectly.

This does not mean that we have no relations with people from other "baskets". With them are very complex and difficult karmic relationships, but we only comfortable with her. Is that karma caused us to be lonely my whole life and not meet anyone of their own. Well, then we deserve it.
Let's start with the most distant category, that affect us the least, are people with whom we have the most minimal karmic connection.



The first counter we not give everything to the penny and not go to the edge of the world. With random passers-by to have only contacts matching the given karmic category, it will be more. The main way to interact with passers — equivalent exchange, which is an indicator of our friendly relationship to the world.

If you need to make a decision concerning the person you see for the first time, for example whether to provide the help you are asking whether to buy the things that you have to offer — listen to your feelings. Try to understand, pleasant or unpleasant energy momentum comes from and how this impulse in you responds. For example, from those who impose their product on the street, often goes a good energy boost (that they learn), but if you listen to yourself, there is a vague unpleasant feeling.


It's the people we often or not very often, but there are in life. In the category of friends we write can't, because we don't feel a great affinity with them. In General, we don't know them well enough to understand who they are for us, besides the fact that just friends.

It's friends, neighbors, permanent hairdresser, attendant, school teachers of our children and parents school friends of our children. This category is the most extensive in our life. And how differently we behave in the bath and at the parent meeting, so in many ways we build our energy relationships with different friends.

We, the inhabitants of the Earth, a single and similar, and we have a common task. How each person lives, depends the whole life of the society as a whole, and consequently each of us.

Energy interaction with the category of acquaintances the most varied. Friends we can perceive as very close and nice people, love them more than relatives, to be spiritually United with them, and can perceive some of them even hostile. Depending on this we build our relationships with them.


People associated with us in the matter, karmically closer than just acquaintances. But in any case should not be confused with friends and relatives. Otherwise, you may suffer and business relations, and friendships, and family. Not to mention the fact that the case itself may crumble into dust. Interaction with colleagues can only go on an even exchange.

An estimable lady, the Director of a Shoe store, "on friendship" hires the daughter of his high school girlfriend. By a strange coincidence, the girl gets into a situation when it becomes the reason for huge trouble. The store Manager barely does not fall under the court. All in shock. School friend goes into the category of hated enemies. Meanwhile, blame only itself an estimable lady. Business relations should be based only on a business basis.But the lady did not fully understand his mistake, because the conclusion that she has learned a lesson, read: do not do good people.


The karmic group of friends opens a series of friends and relatives. And with them, relationships are built completely different. In the three previous categories, the relationship was based on mutually beneficial exchanges. Karmic relationships involve friends selfless support, without regard to the fact that you will get in return.

Why we meet by fate? Why, meeting among thousands of people, one person, suddenly feel kinship of our souls? Because this relationship really is. We do not always remember and understand, but always feel that we are — chickens are one of the baskets. We understand each other, and we seem to think we have the same values. We are cosmically one of the baskets. How and why is this happening? Question until tomorrow.

There is an ancient truth: it is better to be deceived friends, the whole life and not trust them. If friends deceived you so, you made a mistake and the wrong people took it for their friends. Blame only you. Learn to distinguish between karmic category!


We came into this World not by chance, but according to cosmic laws, to comprehend which we not given. We are a part of the whole society of planet Earth, so the state of our soul depends the condition of society as a whole.

Directly and indirectly it is reflected in the fact that we are "cleaning" the karma of a sort. Estima must (by birth) to solve the problems of their families, to help families accumulate the positive energy of the kind, freeing the next generation from generic diseases and karmic problems.

The race in which we came, interacts with us differently. One it is given as the guardian. The rod protects against adversity, helps in life, and guides and in difficult moments gives the strength. Means we something to deserve such support! Such roots must be preserved, inherited, multiplying traditions.

The other genus is given as a test. In overcoming the generic problems, and sometimes of a curse that on it lay, growing the soul, hardens, gains strength and thus cleans the roots, because the man himself — particle kind. Overcoming negativity in himself, he thereby purifies the genus as a whole.

However, there are people who are very little dependent on the karma of a sort. Apparently, because they have a very serious personal problem and a difficult life's purpose according to his own karma. Such people leave the parental shelter, far from the house, quickly acquire autonomy and independence, even with close relatives maintain a very weak connection. They are often difficult road of life, and usually they are big complicated things.

Unfortunately, too many people playing on feelings related willing destroy the morale of their loved ones and not even feel that have done no good. It's an energy "vampires", they should be close. And yet, whatever it was, if even a distant relative sends you a request, do not deny, do everything in your power. This is your generic structure, it will bear your children and grandchildren, depends on you, how clean, friendly and strong roots they will get.

Relatives rarely possible equivalent to the energy exchange. Either we use their energy, or grant them their. Often the processed negatives of each other. It is sometimes necessary to close. And all of this is normal for this category of relations due to the specificity of ancestral energy processes.



Relations you have with our closest relatives — the most vivid indicator of your relationship to ancestral karma. If the family has several children, each of them can be your relationships with family and, consequently, your rate of communication with ancestral karma.

So arranged our world that one of the children may be a carrier of the karma of the father, the other — the karma of the mother, and the third remains clean of these debts. Possible and a much more complex web of karmic lines of the family between brothers and sisters. Two daughters unable to bear the karma of the mother, and the father sends the pure genetic line of his grandson. Brother and sister inherit his father's problems, and the mother passes to her grandson his creative talents. Choices here as much as families in the world.

A supportive relationship between brothers and sisters, selfless and friendly — a great gift and priceless support given by the sky.

But if relationships are bad and even very bad, let us not forget then that these are our brothers and sisters given to us from above. And whatever happens, we must humbly accept what is given to us. Be reasonable support for our loved ones is our karma, what we owed them somewhere and now give.

If the alcoholic brother asks for money to drink them, it is our duty not to give him all that we have, but to do everything to save him. But not against his will. Everything that is done against a person's will is evil.

If there was a spat between sisters and brothers, let us forgive our offenders, we deserve these insults, we may be more guilty in our mutual misunderstanding of each other. Give in and go to reconciliation is working out of karma of a sort. Practicing the karma will clear the way for our children and grandchildren.

No matter what happens in our relationship with parents — forgive them and ask forgiveness for what we do not understand them. Whatever it is, these people are given to us by God, therefore, we deserved it and should humbly accept what is given.


Marriages are made in heaven. Spouses — people who have to build together their fate. Karmic dependence on the spouse much more than dependence on parents. Failure in marriage is experienced is often much harder than "difficult" childhood. It is perceived as the collapse of plans and hopes of youth. Not everyone is able to find the strength to start over, sometimes not in a young age. Joint children continue to bind the spouses during the divorce.

You chose a man his wife, and now he (or she) you absolutely do not like. But you chose means this person something meet? It turns out that you have chosen what meet yourself in the moment! Now we need to understand why fate brought you. What you have to give each other something to teach and something to learn through your meeting.

Energy relations between the spouses know no boundaries. From a spouse is almost impossible to "shut down". Karma the two fused and becomes common. Energy harmonious married couples is so great that they almost invincible. Alien, disharmonious influences can interfere only for a while, the two energy displaces all obstacles and destroys all negatives.

But if you are on the second day or the second year after the wedding, discovered a serious disharmony in the relationship with your spouse, then your task is to do everything to help them to become more harmonious. You can't just take off. Husband — not a bystander. This is another level of karmic relations. Fate provoked you into karmic work.

When you answer all questions and make all the complicated mental work, you will have a feeling of emptiness. No irritation, no anger, no resentment, you will know that blame themselves. Then you become free, you will entitled to make a choice, have the right to end the relationship, that don't bring joy. But your karmic work needs to be done "on all hundred", not fool ourselves. Problem solved when they leave emotions and remains reasonable, light attitude to everything.

Marriage is the experience of serving another person. This is a test of the ability to love and empathize, the ability to take another's point of view, to listen to her, despite any difference of views.

How many takes on your soul if you serve diligently and unselfishly with humility and love for man. How happy are people when, having eaten a peck of salt together, they finally grow harmoniously into each other, taking spouse for what he is, loving with all my heart its advantages and its disadvantages. No need to think that this is a simple humility in the face of life or the fear of it. If people reaches harmony, it is always the result of great inner work of both.



Well, when loved ones and spouses coincide in one person. Harder when they are different people. Relationships with loved ones built in almost the same way as spouses. But if the marriage can be a difficult karma, love is always happiness, and it is given as a reward, apparently, for good working off their karmic debts, it should be protected as a precious gift.

If true love is not mutual, it gives us an even higher state of the soul when we are able to wish for the beloved happiness with another, with someone she loves.

The interaction energy between lovers can be only one Dar. To give the whole world, to give themselves, to give every ounce of their energy. Feel as with each new breath a precious gift does not disappear, but only multiplying, growing, gaining new strength.


The main karmic debt living on Earth human duty to the child. With the parent flow usually absorbed concepts about the World, Good and Evil, they are absorbed somewhere deep on feelings even when it is not spoken aloud.

Which method of interaction you choose is a matter of taste, character, education, but most importantly, ask yourself often:"What I'm stimulating him in this action, this particular word?"

You punish your child, what you showed him? An example of cruelty, hardness of the hands, having the power, or how to be free and responsible for their actions? How much sensitivity, how much subtlety is required for the parent to feel that it responds to a little man in response to the actions and words of adults. Only infinite energy of love to the child can help in this difficult, sometimes intuitive work of the soul.

In conclusion, we can say that such division in the karmic category is very conditional. One and the same person can be in one case a co-worker, in another case, the third — loved one, relative, brother. The point is not to hang on each person the label of "bystander" or "favorite of all favorites." The problem is that in moments every time to understand what is happening, what is acceptable and what is unacceptable with this person in this situation.published

Author: El Tat


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