To love a living person: to consider, to recognize and accept

To love a living person – it means to get closer to its imperfection to his imperfection. To review, recognize and accept the Other. Allow yourself to be moved by his spiritual solitude, his sorrow, his pain.

To love Another is to be close to him without the usual defenses, to abandon immature fantasies. To give to see myself. Stop deceiving yourself and the Other. And fear is not a reason to abandon this work. Everyone is afraid of, this is nothing new.





Note. Mentally healthy people are divided into two categories:

• the first are afraid and do not,
• second – I'm afraid to do.

 

There are no other options.

And if this job was done, found the strength to bury the illusion, we find ourselves close to Another person willing to show warmth and genuine interest, to feel towards him something other — possibly greater — than-pleasant, but familiar desire, a sense of novelty and the accompanying curiosity.

It will be close.

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Author: Victoria Pekarskaya

 

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P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

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