How to teach a child to hear from you: 7 steps Bashny.Net

"Seven steps"

Step 1. Encourage your child to complete your quests, starting with the fact that he wants to do himself. Nikita loves to clap her hands. "Nikita clapping? – Clever, Nikita! And now, Nikita, show me how this is not a car! – Wonderful!" – you teach it to do what you say to him. He learns to listen to you.

Step 2. Encourage your child to fulfill your requests, supporting it with joy. If you child's name, he should come to you. And even better to resort at once. Start with the situations when the child and so happy you will come running, and you do it whether delicious will give, or will cuddle and Pat on the head, or at least a moment to play with him. Soon begin calling, but without the delicious. But if called he has to attend. Once is not repeated but made. Drew his attention and asked him to come when mom calls. Not to swear, and to say: "When Mama calls, you have to come immediately!", – and kiss!





Step 3. Make your case, not responding to the child – in cases when their right you believe yourself and know that you will support all. You are in a hurry for the train, collect things. In this case, the whims of the child, "Well, play with me!" will be easily ignored by all, including grandparents. Teach the child that there are things that are important. Encourage your child to say: "This is important". If you sat down in front of him and looking him in the eye, holding his shoulders, calmly and firmly say: "Adult now we need to get together and we'll play with you later. This is important!" sometime soon the child will begin to understand you. And it is important!

Step 4. Ask for the minimum. The child is already grown-up enough to... not to take away a toy from another child to pick up a fallen glove itself, to put porridge in his mouth on his own... Always looking for those moments when your requirements will be supported by all others, even though grandma would have said nothing. If your requirements on the child too much, he can't keep up with your many demands, or you do not have the support of others – their requests and requirements while clean, do what you want from the child themselves.

Step 5. Confidently give assignments. Let the child do when he is easy or even desirable. Make sure that the child always had things that he needed to do at your request. The child should not fade understanding that he has a job and he has to do it. To clean up the bed, take a Cup, to wash the dishes, run to the store – most likely, you all it is easier and cheaper to do it yourself, but you're the teacher, so your task is to keep yourself, do not do it yourself and each time to charge it to the kid.published

 



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Step 6. Let's difficult and independent tasks. Gradually move to more difficult and independent assignments, mainly on the very positive background, with small irregular reinforcements and rare large

Step 7. To do, and then came and performed (or reported). When the child learns to have it, you can be proud of – you're a grown man. You – educated adult, a responsible man! published

 

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