4 ways to keep yourself in hand when the child does not obey Bashny.Net

"My child is the most capricious and mischievous" — such thoughts probably visited each parent. And when everything goes wrong and difficult to cope with the baby, and then two or more, the advice of psychologists like evaporate out of my head.

The website offers an opportunity to learn what is the cause of most problems with the baby and consider 4 ways how to deal with the monster children of disobedience.

1. Come up with a secret chip





Problem. When the child does on its own and contrary to parental decree is natural. Abnormal — when this happens from time to time. The reason that the child does not hear you, it may be that you explain in a strange language he.

Solution. Presumably the child systematically throws garbage bins. Show him the technique secret spies about how it is done properly, and next time we encourage them to do everything "spy".

2. Explain to your child that there are different situations





Problem. Often it happens that due to lack of sleep or other problems in life to play with your child and soothe his just not strong enough, making towards a little naughty (nye) there is anger and irritation.

Solution. Hint to your child that you can't pay attention to him, because now not the situation, and after a short time it will pass. The child will not continue to bother you, yet will not change it, and the circumstances.

3. Remember yourself in childhood





Problem. Maybe there's something that really annoys you in communicating with your child: joint cross-dressing, brushing, certain gestures or demeanor.

Solution. If you are angry that the child is naughty during brushing or bathing, remember the time when how to deal with it your own mother brought you to tears. Having considered your problem from the outside, you will treat her with patience and even humor.

4. Agree with your partner





Problem. In emergency situations, when you are late, the food on the stove burn, the phone rings and unfortunately this all happens within 5 minutes before or when you only have a minute turned/left on the Affairs, you pick on children.

Solution. In such cases, you should remember about home. Sweet wheezing under the barrage of children screaming and running around, the father does not cause you to smile emotion? Discuss with your husband the allocation of responsibilities and sequence of actions together in such situations.

It is important to rememberthat we cannot allow in the consciousness of the baby rooted the idea that he is the cause of all ills in the house, and then between parents and children reign long-awaited understanding.

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