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Now popular is such a thing - "find their true desires." This is when a person makes a different practice, to learn what he wants really. That is, not that he imposed, and what he wants. But all these searches are based on the axiom that a person has his own desires, which he somehow knows it subconsciously.




The longer I watched the desires of the people for their own desires and their different levels, the more I became convinced that the man does not have his desires. All your desires, one way or another, are imposed. It differs only in the degree of primitiveness imposing, say, a level at which they are imposed. And 'search of your desires "- is something of a pun, by and large

. In fact, you only are moving from the lower levels to higher imposition. Either way, some sense of this is still there, because at higher levels of desire more interesting.

You do not have his desires

Low primitive levels impose - this is when, for example, are caused by banal desire your body

. Sexual feelings and sexual attraction to other people - it navyazannost biological instinct, and when you realize it, you can still follow it, but more selectively.

There are higher levels of imposing - all sorts of social ladder, who set the direction of your movement in society. The status of the property, the desire to be some kind of leader, business owner, and so on.

With social desires - the same thing. Realizing that they impose on society, you can be more selective look at what you need, and that - no

. When you seriously believe in the truth of your desires, you are much more difficult to achieve them, and in this paradox. But when you realize that this is a game that these desires are not truly yours, and it's just some imposing levels - it becomes easy, because it's just an illusion, in which you play. And sell them enormously easier.

Now you can go to the extreme, the trap of the "struggle with desires imposed." It will be the same bredyatina as the "search for truth". You just have to realize these desires navyazannost. inherently desires do not matter, important only those changes that they make to the human essence.

So when you begin to understand navyazannost any and all desires and stop raving ideas of their "truth" or "finding yourself" - is generally the main delirium, which is at the head - then all these desires are merely "curious social glitches" which, thus, you may be delivering pleasure. "Oh, what a funny glitch for me, it turns out from the society there. Well, let's play in this. »

That is the essence of the approach: you realize navyazannost desires and are using it to simplify and achieve flexibility in their implementation.
Author: Valeri Revenko