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Seven-year cycle of human life
From 0 to 7 years
A strong bond with her mother. Horizontal knowledge of the world. Creating feelings. The smell of the mother, the mother's milk, the mother's voice, the warmth of the mother, the mother kisses are the first sensations. The period usually ends hatching from the protective cocoon of maternal love and the discovery of a more or less cold the rest of the world.
From 7 to 14 years
A strong relationship with his father. Vertical knowledge of the world. Creating a personality. The father becomes the new exclusive partner, an ally in the opening of the world outside the family cocoon. Father extends the protective cocoon of the family. Father becomes a landmark. Mother was loved by his father to be adored.
From 14 to 21 years
Rebellion against society. The knowledge of the matter. Creation of intelligence. This crisis of adolescence. A desire to change the world and to destroy existing structures. Young attacks the family cocoon, then society as a whole. Teen seduces all "rebels" - loud music, romance, desire for independence, the flight, communication with marginalized groups of young people, anarchist values, the systematic denial of the old values. The period ends with the release from the family cocoon.
From 21 to 28 years
Entry into society. Stabilization after the riot. Having failed with the destruction of the world, it integrates, first wanting to be better than the previous generation. The search for a more interesting job than the parents. The search for a more interesting place to live than the parents. An attempt to create a happier couple than their parents. Partner selection and creation of the hearth. Create your own cocoon. The period usually ends in marriage.
Since then, the man fulfilled his mission and committed to the first protective cocoon.
END OF THE FIRST SQUARE 4 × 7 YEARS.
After the first square, culminating in the creation of their own cocoon, the person enters into a second series of seven-year cycles.
28-35 years
Creating a hearth. After his marriage, apartments, cars have children. Values are accumulated inside the cocoon. But if the first four cycles were not completed successfully, the focus falls. If the relationship with his mother was not properly are lived, she would molest his daughter. If my father, too, it will start to interfere in the affairs of a young couple. If the revolt against society would not have experienced, there is a risk of conflict in the workplace. 35 years old - the age at which a poorly ripe cocoon often explodes. Then there is a divorce, dismissal, depression, psychosomatic illness. Then first koko should be dropped and ...
35-42 years
Everything starts from scratch. After the crisis of people and a previous experience and mistakes, it reconstructs the second cocoon. It is necessary to reconsider the relationship to the mother, family, father, maturity. This is the period when divorced men appear mistress, while divorced women - lovers. They are trying to perceive what they expect, not from marriage, and from its partner.
Relations with the public should also be reviewed. Now the work is not selected in terms of its security, and by how interesting it is, or what free time she leaves. After the destruction of the first pod person always feels like how you can create a second faster. New marriage, new job, a new relationship. If getting rid of parasitic elements went well, people should be able to recover not like, and improved cocoon. If he did not understand the mistakes of the past, it will restore the exact same shell and come to exactly the same defeats. This is what is called the "run around." Since then all the cycles will be only a repetition of the same mistakes.
42-49 years
The conquest of society. Once the second, improved cocoon restored, man can know the fullness of life in marriage, family, work, own development. This victory leads to two new types of behavior.
If a person is an important feature of the material well-being: more money, more comfort, more children, more than mistresses or lovers, more power, it continually increases and enriches its new improved cocoon
. If a person goes to the conquest of new territories, namely the spiritual, then begins a true creation of his personality. By all logic, this period should end identity crisis, an existential question. Why am I here, why do I live, what I have to do to make life gained meaning in addition to material goods?
49-56 years
Spiritual Revolution. If a person is able to create or recreate a cocoon and realized in the family and work, he naturally tempted to gain wisdom. Now begins the last adventure, a spiritual revolution.
The search for spirituality, if they are conducted fairly, without falling into the group activity or ease of ready-made ideas, will never be finished. They will take the rest of your life.
END OF THE SECOND SQUARE 4 × 7 YEARS.
N.B. 1: Further development continues in a spiral. Every seven years, a person rises to one turn, and again passes through the same issues: the relationship with the mother and father, the attitude to revolt against society and the family
. N.B. 2: Sometimes some people deliberately fail within the family or at work, to be forced to start the cycle again. Thus they try to avoid or postpone the moment when they have to go to the spiritual phase, because they are afraid to face with themselves face to face.
From the book by Bernard Werber "Empire of Angels"
A strong bond with her mother. Horizontal knowledge of the world. Creating feelings. The smell of the mother, the mother's milk, the mother's voice, the warmth of the mother, the mother kisses are the first sensations. The period usually ends hatching from the protective cocoon of maternal love and the discovery of a more or less cold the rest of the world.
From 7 to 14 years
A strong relationship with his father. Vertical knowledge of the world. Creating a personality. The father becomes the new exclusive partner, an ally in the opening of the world outside the family cocoon. Father extends the protective cocoon of the family. Father becomes a landmark. Mother was loved by his father to be adored.
From 14 to 21 years
Rebellion against society. The knowledge of the matter. Creation of intelligence. This crisis of adolescence. A desire to change the world and to destroy existing structures. Young attacks the family cocoon, then society as a whole. Teen seduces all "rebels" - loud music, romance, desire for independence, the flight, communication with marginalized groups of young people, anarchist values, the systematic denial of the old values. The period ends with the release from the family cocoon.
From 21 to 28 years
Entry into society. Stabilization after the riot. Having failed with the destruction of the world, it integrates, first wanting to be better than the previous generation. The search for a more interesting job than the parents. The search for a more interesting place to live than the parents. An attempt to create a happier couple than their parents. Partner selection and creation of the hearth. Create your own cocoon. The period usually ends in marriage.
Since then, the man fulfilled his mission and committed to the first protective cocoon.
END OF THE FIRST SQUARE 4 × 7 YEARS.
After the first square, culminating in the creation of their own cocoon, the person enters into a second series of seven-year cycles.
28-35 years
Creating a hearth. After his marriage, apartments, cars have children. Values are accumulated inside the cocoon. But if the first four cycles were not completed successfully, the focus falls. If the relationship with his mother was not properly are lived, she would molest his daughter. If my father, too, it will start to interfere in the affairs of a young couple. If the revolt against society would not have experienced, there is a risk of conflict in the workplace. 35 years old - the age at which a poorly ripe cocoon often explodes. Then there is a divorce, dismissal, depression, psychosomatic illness. Then first koko should be dropped and ...
35-42 years
Everything starts from scratch. After the crisis of people and a previous experience and mistakes, it reconstructs the second cocoon. It is necessary to reconsider the relationship to the mother, family, father, maturity. This is the period when divorced men appear mistress, while divorced women - lovers. They are trying to perceive what they expect, not from marriage, and from its partner.
Relations with the public should also be reviewed. Now the work is not selected in terms of its security, and by how interesting it is, or what free time she leaves. After the destruction of the first pod person always feels like how you can create a second faster. New marriage, new job, a new relationship. If getting rid of parasitic elements went well, people should be able to recover not like, and improved cocoon. If he did not understand the mistakes of the past, it will restore the exact same shell and come to exactly the same defeats. This is what is called the "run around." Since then all the cycles will be only a repetition of the same mistakes.
42-49 years
The conquest of society. Once the second, improved cocoon restored, man can know the fullness of life in marriage, family, work, own development. This victory leads to two new types of behavior.
If a person is an important feature of the material well-being: more money, more comfort, more children, more than mistresses or lovers, more power, it continually increases and enriches its new improved cocoon
. If a person goes to the conquest of new territories, namely the spiritual, then begins a true creation of his personality. By all logic, this period should end identity crisis, an existential question. Why am I here, why do I live, what I have to do to make life gained meaning in addition to material goods?
49-56 years
Spiritual Revolution. If a person is able to create or recreate a cocoon and realized in the family and work, he naturally tempted to gain wisdom. Now begins the last adventure, a spiritual revolution.
The search for spirituality, if they are conducted fairly, without falling into the group activity or ease of ready-made ideas, will never be finished. They will take the rest of your life.
END OF THE SECOND SQUARE 4 × 7 YEARS.
N.B. 1: Further development continues in a spiral. Every seven years, a person rises to one turn, and again passes through the same issues: the relationship with the mother and father, the attitude to revolt against society and the family
. N.B. 2: Sometimes some people deliberately fail within the family or at work, to be forced to start the cycle again. Thus they try to avoid or postpone the moment when they have to go to the spiritual phase, because they are afraid to face with themselves face to face.
From the book by Bernard Werber "Empire of Angels"
