Letter wise woman young girls

«The relationship should be as simple as two pennies, because love does not count." - Relations with the chance to be long-term, should not be difficult to identify. Well, how long a person is able to make the brain itself and others in a non-stop? Well, six months, a year, in particularly severe cases - a couple of years. And then he pulls out all the final and the audience in sorrowful silence leaves the auditorium, leaving the hero alone to sweat on stage under the glow of spotlights.

The so-called complex relationships, all these "come-left" and many hours of conversations about high - it is, sorry, from a surplus of free time. < This is the wrong attitude. Seriously. It's like if you go to the showroom and want to Bentley, though your funds in the best case, enough for a down payment for the "zhopel" as standard. You can come over the years in the interior, but all you shining - it is still "zhopel". You will say that Bentley - the only thing that is right for you, you proklyuete skull with all my family and friends, you will make a mournful face and wringing his hands, you mess up your life, you will build the suffering into a fetish, but you never stop to think that all you need - a strong, reliable workhorse with working air conditioning, clean facilities and a properly selected rubber, which takes you from point a to point B.

Relationships should be as simple as two dime. whether a genius if he is a physicist or a simple Vasya-miller, no matter what his education, how many languages ​​he speaks, how many women he had, and good if he wrote poetry, the only important thing, as far as you with These comfortable. If it brings you to the depression, if you are with him no less bad, than without it, if you know that you have no chance with him if it makes your brain, if he loves all these frazochki: "I'm not ready" or "We have to wait," or "I need to think," or "it's so difficult," - send it. Do you really loved him or was it just a whim - you will understand only much later, so you absolutely nothing to lose

. Love does not indefinable state of love is often mistaken desire, respect, habit, jealousy, the desire to get even, and much more. < From the "complicated" relationship you do not win anything but a headache. If you need it, this headache, if you live without it can not find the courage to admit that you need not this particular a man, and that headache you get with it. And learn how to extract the headache of a more productive relationship, simply warn the np-c-and-L-L-n-o-grams-about a man that on Wednesdays and Saturdays you - uniform bitch, let him prepare in advance.

again and again: the relationship should be simple you do with this man give birth to children, farm news, plans to build, go to visit, communicate with relatives and in general to conduct the most that. neither is primitive philistine life. And if you think that you will pass this cup, you oh-oh-oh-oh-very much mistaken.

It's how it happens? At first, we need высокийстройныйкрасивыйумныйбогатыйперспективныйсексуальныйромантичный, and only much later, we understand - we all understand - that we need a person you can rely on, that will not close when his mind peremknulo correctly. And always. Always, you know? Therefore reliability - very important quality

. Him to help you in the most difficult moments of life, when well complete ass and step right, step left - go nuts. < Therefore, the responsibility - is also very important quality

. You will want to share with them the joy and sadness, victories and defeats, dreams and fears, so empathy - is generally kapets how important

. You will learn it far and wide, you will understand each other perfectly, you eventually pritretes each other as honed supermegaekstrastanke gear, you will continue to make trouble and put up because he did not for you, it is the other person, even though he was imprisoned under you just as you are under it. Therefore, tolerance - without it quite simply does

. And you constantly give each other a part of yourself, piece by piece gnawing his bachelor habits, it is now fashionable word "compromise", so that Flexibility - it is also very, very important

. And you will make important decisions, individually and collectively, the decisions that it is able to change your current way of life, so that without trust - well, just nothing at all

. Think about it, that's when you were 20, you did anything without thinking, right? You want him to famously drove to you at supertachke, beautifully presented flowers and so kissed on the lips. And so you admired his awesome-beautiful eyes, and in general would be like in the picture. So in fact all it does not matter even once. Spitting, beautiful or not, tall or short, slim or chubby, talker or a stutterer. All you need from him - is the realization that here with this man and into the fire and into the water, and copper pipes, and that, when he's around, you very well. And that without it you mountain-ah-ah-ah-azdo bad, than with him.

And I assure you, when you turn around back 20 years from now, when you continue to be touched by measuring its temperature and helping to write a will, even though it only once sneezed, and when you stop to lead finally intimate conversations "And where are we going "because you have already come to wherever you need to, so this is love. < Love - it is not pre-calculated. Never.

And that's all the "complicated" relationship - well, damn, well, go on courses macrame or something. Or help orphans. Leave your poor brain alone, and he has no worries you a mouthful.

Author: dragetta



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