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7 facts confirming that we are created for relations with other people
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Author of the book "On the same wavelength," neuroscientist Amy Banks, believes that the value of today's competitive world is not simply uncouple us, but also contrary to the very nature. Independence from other people and self-sufficiency -. Just another myth that can poison our lives Website lists a few facts to support this idea
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< 1. Our brain has a special mirror system, copies the actions and emotions of other people. For example, when the source is reaching for sweets in our head are activated exactly those neurons that would be involved if we are trying to get sweets. And if we see on someone's face an expression of horror, the frightened, too.
So, people are naturally linked, can affect each other and learn a lot in the process of communication. This discovery made neyrofizik University of Parma Giacomo Ritstsolatti. Quite by accident, he discovered mirror effect in the brains of monkeys and decided to investigate this phenomenon further.
< 2. The interdependence of people was not always obvious to the scientists. Very long enjoyed popularity among psychologists theory of separation-individuation. According to her, from the very birth of increasingly distance ourselves from other people in order to eventually gain full independence.
However, even before it has been discovered mirror neurons, experts doubt the viability of this theory. For example, a psychiatrist Jean Baker Miller and psychologists Judith Jordan, Irene Stayver Janet Surrey and noted that their patients do not suffer because of weak borders and the lack of independence. The really bad it was from lack of communication. Today, scientists recognize much more promising relational-cultural theory. It is based on the following proposition: people do not reach maturity by the division. On the contrary, age they form an increasingly complex relationship.
< 3. Scientists from North Carolina investigated how social support influences people's lives. They watched 331 people aged 65 years. The results showed that even if we take into account the different risk factors, such as smoking, sex, material status, nutrition, physical fitness and stressful circumstances, social support largely affects the health.
Among the participants of the experiment, there is a lack of communication and is considered insufficient social support, the level of premature mortality was 340 per cent higher than among those who are satisfied to receive attention.
< 4. Scientists from Yale University studied the Coronary angiograms hundred nineteen forty men and women. Observations showed that those patients who feel loved, much less likely to suffer from clogged arteries, than other study participants.
This result also stay relevant after the researchers considered various risk factors, including a genetic predisposition to heart disease, smoking, age, stress, nutrition, and physical health.
< 5. In the 1950s, researchers conducted a survey among healthy male students at Harvard. Scholars interested in how young people are close to their parents. Also, they were asked to tell about a father and a mother.
After 35 years among those who spoke about his parents and his relationship with them is positive, only 29 percent had one or another disease. At the same time one of those people who have had problems in communicating with parents, 95 percent were susceptible to various diseases.
< 6. Another study confirmed the influence of family relationships on our health, began in the 1940s. Then in 1100 male students from Johns Hopkins University were asked to complete a questionnaire to determine their degree of closeness with parents. At that time, young people did not have any diseases.
Scientists respondents examined again after 50 years. Research has shown that people who have since been diagnosed with cancer were less close to their parents, and especially fathers, compared with those who have not been diagnosed with the disease.
< 7. The experiment was conducted in 2003 by researchers from the University of California showed that your brain reacts to social exclusion as well as the acute physical pain.
Subjects in turn went to the lab and started to play with the scientists in the online game Cyberball, where you have to flip the ball to each other; while the volunteers were connected to the scanner fMRI. In the beginning everything went well, but gradually the participants in the experiment stopped feeding the ball. It just pulls away from the game, without explaining the reasons.
Amazingly, even this slight neglect activated the dorsal area of the anterior cingulate cortex, responsible for physical pain. It turns out to be lonely and rejected by others - for us it is almost the same as the seriously ill or injured
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More about how relationships affect our brain, you can read in the book "On the same wavelength». H3>
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< 1. Our brain has a special mirror system, copies the actions and emotions of other people. For example, when the source is reaching for sweets in our head are activated exactly those neurons that would be involved if we are trying to get sweets. And if we see on someone's face an expression of horror, the frightened, too.
So, people are naturally linked, can affect each other and learn a lot in the process of communication. This discovery made neyrofizik University of Parma Giacomo Ritstsolatti. Quite by accident, he discovered mirror effect in the brains of monkeys and decided to investigate this phenomenon further.
< 2. The interdependence of people was not always obvious to the scientists. Very long enjoyed popularity among psychologists theory of separation-individuation. According to her, from the very birth of increasingly distance ourselves from other people in order to eventually gain full independence.
However, even before it has been discovered mirror neurons, experts doubt the viability of this theory. For example, a psychiatrist Jean Baker Miller and psychologists Judith Jordan, Irene Stayver Janet Surrey and noted that their patients do not suffer because of weak borders and the lack of independence. The really bad it was from lack of communication. Today, scientists recognize much more promising relational-cultural theory. It is based on the following proposition: people do not reach maturity by the division. On the contrary, age they form an increasingly complex relationship.
< 3. Scientists from North Carolina investigated how social support influences people's lives. They watched 331 people aged 65 years. The results showed that even if we take into account the different risk factors, such as smoking, sex, material status, nutrition, physical fitness and stressful circumstances, social support largely affects the health.
Among the participants of the experiment, there is a lack of communication and is considered insufficient social support, the level of premature mortality was 340 per cent higher than among those who are satisfied to receive attention.
< 4. Scientists from Yale University studied the Coronary angiograms hundred nineteen forty men and women. Observations showed that those patients who feel loved, much less likely to suffer from clogged arteries, than other study participants.
This result also stay relevant after the researchers considered various risk factors, including a genetic predisposition to heart disease, smoking, age, stress, nutrition, and physical health.
< 5. In the 1950s, researchers conducted a survey among healthy male students at Harvard. Scholars interested in how young people are close to their parents. Also, they were asked to tell about a father and a mother.
After 35 years among those who spoke about his parents and his relationship with them is positive, only 29 percent had one or another disease. At the same time one of those people who have had problems in communicating with parents, 95 percent were susceptible to various diseases.
< 6. Another study confirmed the influence of family relationships on our health, began in the 1940s. Then in 1100 male students from Johns Hopkins University were asked to complete a questionnaire to determine their degree of closeness with parents. At that time, young people did not have any diseases.
Scientists respondents examined again after 50 years. Research has shown that people who have since been diagnosed with cancer were less close to their parents, and especially fathers, compared with those who have not been diagnosed with the disease.
< 7. The experiment was conducted in 2003 by researchers from the University of California showed that your brain reacts to social exclusion as well as the acute physical pain.
Subjects in turn went to the lab and started to play with the scientists in the online game Cyberball, where you have to flip the ball to each other; while the volunteers were connected to the scanner fMRI. In the beginning everything went well, but gradually the participants in the experiment stopped feeding the ball. It just pulls away from the game, without explaining the reasons.
Amazingly, even this slight neglect activated the dorsal area of the anterior cingulate cortex, responsible for physical pain. It turns out to be lonely and rejected by others - for us it is almost the same as the seriously ill or injured
.
More about how relationships affect our brain, you can read in the book "On the same wavelength». H3>
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