We all wish that our relationship could be described with the phrase: "And they lived happily ever after." After all, a perfect novel - a novel that does not end.
Website has decided to recall what to do to live forever in love and harmony with his half.
1. Maintain a sense of passion h3> Unfortunately, that spark that connect you, enough to keep the love forever. Many couples forget about it in a series of home and work problems. When your daily conversations confined to what to cook for dinner and who should throw out the trash, it is difficult to even remember the word "passion».
But you can keep the former agitation, adding something new to your relationship. And for that it does not need to spend a lot of money, or the outlandish plan holidays.
You can start by adding a small item, such as weekly trips to new places of the city. Even such a simple enough matter will give you a new topic of conversation and the ability to draw up joint plans for the next week. Next, you can diversify trips, for example, cycling, trips out of town and so on. The main thing to remember key components of action - novelty and interesting
2. Listen more than talk h3> Imagine that you come home from work with exciting news, and your partner, and do not take your eyes off the phone in response to an emotional story simply muttered, "Yeah, great».
And the second option immediately puts your favorite phone, stands up, hugs you with the words: "This is wonderful! I know that you will do it. Let's celebrate it? »
Which is preferable - the answer is obvious. To your life was just a second option, always remember the golden rule: Do unto others as you would like them to do to you. Be a partner attentive and listened with rapt interest as we would like him to listen to you.
3. Be willing to compromise h3> You want to go for the long-awaited premiere of the film, and your partner is tired after a busy day and just want to relax at home. You have your argument, he has his own. The ability to solve these problems - an important ingredient for long-term relationships.
You can offer the option to go on a night session, and before that to give a couple of hours to take a nap favorite. One should always look for options that would benefit both parties.
If your partner is sacrificed for the sake of your own interests, do not forget to thank him, because he did it to make you well.
There are global issues, such as having children or not, whether to move to another town, and the like. It is better to discuss before taking a commitment to long-term relationship with a man.
4. Treat obligations seriously h3> One wishes to extend the relationship is not sufficient. You must take action to demonstrate commitment to your partner.
But if one partner does all the hard work: bring their own interests in the victim apologizes dealing with a partner, he handles his feelings, while the other half does not respond the same as the first effort came to nothing lead. Think about it, maybe he did not need?
Author: Kristen Butler
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