19 life lessons that many people still have not learned.

1. You need to accept people as they are, or do not accept at all.
Because it is almost impossible to change them. Really. If you are trying to convert them and make them for what you want to see them - you can only wish good luck. Since the idea is doomed to failure.

2. Your definition of happiness differs from the others.
What works for you, does not necessarily have to work for them. You are not the judge of the world, to judge the decision taken by the friends of life. According to one well-known biblical postulate: "Judge not, that ye be not judged.»

3. You must be able to stand up for themselves.
The world is full of villains that and strive to seize the advantage over you. No one can afford to be defenseless. You have to learn to be stubborn and pushy (in moderation, of course) to get what you want.

4. Today your love, tomorrow - no longer exists.
Man - a being fickle. We go to bed in love, and wake up with a sense of betrayal. Sometimes a breakup can do for you mean. And sometimes it is the whole tragedy. In any case, after parting depressed about her unattractiveness and look for flaws in yourself - it's a waste of time. You will have many more chances to fall in love! The only obstacle in your way - it's your own fear of new relationships.

5. You do not have to be close to all the members of your family. If any communication with his family poison your life, in your interest as soon as possible to establish certain boundaries such communication.

6. If you buy any piece of clothing that you do not have the right size, but you're going to use it as an incentive to lose weight - you never and will not wear it.

7. Constant remorse and guilt over the bad deeds dealings - just goes to prove that you will be doing them again and again.

8. Stop envying people who are your age better than you. Direct this energy to achieve their own goals.

9. Self-esteem - it is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. But to find it - much more difficult.

10. If you caught yourself thinking that constantly lose your job, friends, important relationships and communication, perhaps it is time to recognize that the root of all problems is you ?!

11. You do not owe anything to anybody.
If you think otherwise, you will be constantly miserable and unhappy life.

12. In order to achieve something in life, you must work hard and work hard even.
If you want to know the answer to the question: "Why do I have what I want", you should study his work habits and his manner of working.

13. Moving to another city does not protect against all misfortunes.
At least in most cases.

14. Talking nonsense from time to time, or a little fib sometimes - this is normal.

15. Nothing ventured, nothing gained!
If you realize that your work took you just dismiss. Unleash your inner self!

17. There is no such thing as to enjoy the feeling of guilt.
Many, without knowing it, like torture itself and once again suffer. It's unhealthy.

18. Sometimes it is best to do something, you always have time to apologize.

19. Must be able to stop in time. For example, time to leave the party.
Because after 4 am usually nothing good is happening. We all know the feeling when you want to continue to have fun again and again. Be able to go to the peak. If you hesitated, all the fun will go down the drain.