36 questions, after which the inevitable love: fall in love with a man in 4 minutes! Bashny.Net

Arthur Aron - a psychologist who 20 years ago had a terrific experiment. In his laboratory, he invited strangers early man and a woman who offered to answer 36 questions. People have been talking earnestly, sharing with each other. After discussing the issues, the couple looked into each other's eyes for 4 minutes. It's amazing what happened then - six months later, these people have decided to get married!

The secret of this experience is that in response to such detailed personal questions, people become open, vulnerable. Total transparency is very brings. After speaking on such topics with a perfect stranger and carefully listened to him, you very quickly conquer his confidence. Further, these questions may be used in therapy relationship. Moving away from each other couple can quickly refresh your senses with the help of a confidential conversation. Here is a list of these amazing questions:

1. Choosing from all the world, who would you invite guests in for dinner?
2. Would you like to be famous? What would you like to become famous?
3. Before making a phone call, do you ever rehearse what he was going to say? Why?
4. How do you imagine a perfect day?
5. When was the last time he sang alone with him? And for someone else?
6. What would you choose: to save in the next 60 years of his life the body or the mind itself 30 years?
7. Do you have a secret premonition of how you die?
8. Name three things in common, that is, you and your partner.
9. What in your life do you feel most grateful?
10. If you could change anything in the course of their education, what would it be?
11. 4 minutes, tell your partner your life story as detailed as possible.
12. If you could wake up tomorrow, acquiring a certain quality or ability, what / how?
13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about your life, about the future or about something else, what would you like to know?
14. Is there something that you've dreamed of doing for a long time? Why did not you do this?
15. Name the biggest achievement in my life.
16. What do you value most in friends?
17. What is your fondest memories?
18. The most terrible memories?
19. If you knew that within a year you will die suddenly, would you change anything in your current life? Why?
20. What does friendship mean to you?
21. What is the role of love and affection play in your life?
22. Name the positive characteristics of his partner, about 5 points.
23. How close are your family members? Do you think that your childhood was happier than most other people?
24. What do you think about his relationship with his mother?
25. Make a three truthful sentence beginning with "we." For example, "We're both in this room think about ...».
26. Continue this sentence: "I would like to share with someone ...».
27. What should you know about the partner with whom you want to be close friends?
28. Tell your partner that you most like in it. Try to be very honest.
29. Share with your partner the most unpleasant aspect of your life.
30. Remember, when and what did you last cry.
31. What is the thing you think is so serious that the joke about her - impossible?
32. If you had to die this evening that important would you like to say and to whom?
33. Your house and all your property on fire. After saving the family you have time to go back into the house again, and save any one thing. What is this thing and why did you choose it?
34. The death of any member of your family have touched you the most? Why?
35. Share a personal problem and ask your partner to advise how to solve it.
36. Tell me about your first love.

According to Erich Fromm, in his book "The Art of Loving" - love is not something easily accessible and casual. Realizing his loneliness in the great world, people aspire to unite with someone who would understand and support them. These questions are very well connected, even very different people, as to reflect together on such important moments - so as close to each other.

Spend this experiment with your partner, and if it does not - it does not matter. Through the discussion of these issues, you can very quickly get close to someone who you like. Psychology - the science of magic, it can do wonders!

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